Archive for October, 2008

Alpha Females And Beta Males = Match


Like I said before. The term Hot Alpha Female is always unfolding for me. But here is something that I have uncovered recently.

Its all a sham! Hahaha …. Well ok a little bit of it is a sham.

Want to know why?

Well let me explain.

Maybe because I thought Hot Alpha Female, was a completely new concept, I thought it was a brainwave that no one had ever thought of before.

Apparently, I’m still learning a lot. Apparently I don’t know it all. And I think that’s a good thing, because otherwise I would never learn anything new.

SO what brought this on? Well the book called Venus on Top: Women Who Are Born to Lead and the Men Who Love Them, changed that for me!

Like hello?! What have I been missing this whole time! So here is another realization that I have come to, which a lot of alpha women will have to realize. And trust me, I was fighting this one for a long time.

That Alpha Females need a Beta Male. Now I hesitate calling them Beta Males. But here is the thing that I discovered about what I really want. A confident funny Beta Male. I don’t want an Alpha Male, because there isn’t enough room in the relationship for 2 egos.

Now the only way I realize this is by reflecting on my past experiences.

Yes the strong and masculine and over powering males have been an incredible intrigue. But I wouldn’t actually date one of them!

Most of the men I have dated are complete and utter Beta Males. Now that’s not to say that is bad, but here is the thing. I always thought that I wanted to guy that was just like me. That had his own huge ambitions, that was passionate, inspirational and a real go getter. I wanted to have things going full steam ahead too!

Sounds great in theory right? But if I’m doing the same, then where is the time together going to happen?

What I have found with my many alpha female friends is that their current partners are in fact supportive more than anything else. Usually my friends are real go getters and their husbands support them from the side line.

Women at the front, man standing next to her.

Supportive = great.

Doormat = not so great.

I mean don’t even get me started on that topic again.

So if there is ever a wonder why so called alpha females are having trouble, its because they are looking for an alpha male when what they really need is a beta.

Sorry girls.

So what is my conclusion?!

Alpha Males with Beta Females. Alpha Females with Beta Males.

*sigh* I finally believe that is true ….

Thoughts?

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5 Minute Find A Man Monday’s – Why Women Are Bitches When You Pick Up Their Friends

Ok so you have all been in that situation before.

Where you see a really hot chick.

Finally have the balls to go up and talk to her.

But then all of a sudden you find her friend either wisping her away or just being a complete biatch about the whole thing.

Why does this happen?

And how can we use this and turn it around to work in our favour?

Well start watching people!!

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5 Minute Find A Man Monday’s – Part One – How To Pick Men Up At A Club

Girls girls girls. So I'm sure that all of you have been out clubbing or to the bars before. Maybe some of you still do it a lot and others not so much.

Whatever the case, either is fine! Now what usually happens on these nights? Do a lot of you go out to meet men, get oogled and googled but then have no one approach you? or

Have you gone out clubbing and only had the horrible sleazy men hit on you and wondered where all the more quality ones are? In this video I set the "scene" to a 4 part video series (2 per week). I explain a "pick up game", that you can choose to use not only at a nightclub but anywhere, anytime, anyplace.

I show you how you can have a really great fun night which involves harmless flirting and no promise of anything you don't want.

If you wanna know what it is, you'll just have to watch! For my subscribers, please click here

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Evening with S

S called on Wednesday to see if I could be free the next evening. He was working out of London for the day but although he’d told “everyone else” that he wouldn’t be travelling back until really late, he could actually meet me around 8 p.m. if I wished. I replied that although it was short notice, I would see what I could do and would let him know the next morning.

When I asked J that evening, he was instantly excited and said that, of course, he “wouldn’t mind at all !!!” So I called S the next morning on my way into work and he said he’d book the room at our usual hotel and would meet me there as he wasn’t sure exactly what time he’d get back into London.

I enjoyed an hour or so of shopping in Oxford Street before getting the Tube and Taxi to the hotel. I felt a little nervously “excited” about checking-in at reception myself but once I was in the room it was actually quite arousing to run myself a bath and just soak. I called J to check that he was ok with preparing a meal for the kids (always a worry!) but of course he was more interested in what I was doing and what I was “going to be doing”. I could tell by the sound of his voice that he was quite excited to hear I was soaking in the bath just waiting for S to arrive.

After I finished my call, I wrapped myself in a towel, turned on the television news and just lounged on the bed waiting. S had called from his car to say he was on his way . . . but it was close to 9 before he actually called again to say he was downstairs in the car park and to ask what room we were in. A few minutes later he tapped on the door and I welcomed him with a kiss on the cheek . . . and then casually draped my towel over the back of the chair as I walked, naked, back to the bed. I sat down on the edge of the bed whilst he stood just grinning at me. He then asked if I was hungry and suggested that we ordered a snack, and some wine, from room service whilst he had a shower. I teasingly played the “hurt mistress” by saying he was obviously more interested in food than in seeing me after keeping me waiting for so long. But as he hadn’t eaten much during the day and he wanted to unwind after a long drive, we agreed that he would phone downstairs and order something snacky and quick.

I put my top and skirt back on (to answer the door) and then sat on the toilet seat whilst he showered and talked about his day and his journey. We continued just chatting for quite a while, sitting on the edge of the bed, whilst we snacked, so it was already quite late before he took my plate from me and reached across to start unbuttoning my blouse. I told him that having to get dressed again had been a bit of a passion-killer so he was probably going to find it quite hard to get me “back in the mood”. He’d wrapped a towel around his waist when he’d come out of the shower, but as we began kissing and re-adjusting our position on the bed, it unwrapped and I could see he was certainly already quite aroused.

I was soon undressed again and laying back enjoying his caresses and as he kissed and sucked at my nipples, and I stroked him gently with my hand, I began to feel aroused again. He was soon sliding down my tummy and then lifted me further back on the bed so that he could kneel between my legs and continue to lick at my pussy. I knew I was getting wetter and then felt him sliding his fingers into me. S just does lovely pushing and poking with his fingers and when he is licking and sucking at me at the same time it can sometimes make me come really quickly.

Too quickly actually . . . and I had to push him away and roll over onto my side and curl my knees up into my chest. He knows when I’m like this that I need to just lie still for a while. So he cuddled up behind me stroking my arm and saying something like “I thought you’d lost your passion”.

Eventually I was able to turn back over into him . . . I could feel he was still hard so I started stroking him and kissing his chest. Once I’d recovered my energy I slid down the bed, rolling him more onto his back, so that I could slide my mouth over him. I do enjoy sucking up and down like this, not just the physical feel of it, but it makes me feel that it is because of me that my man has become aroused like this, and I enjoy that sensation as well. J enjoys me being quite aggressive and nibbling, and gently biting, as well as sucking, but S is too sensitive there and says it is painful if I suck too hard, or use my teeth. So I enjoy the difference, knowing that I can make him enjoy things as well.

S then pulled me up and away telling me he needed me to stop now and that he wanted more of me. He was sliding his hands down over me again and sucking down on my nipples. I was holding him and stroking him as he played with me and we moved ourselves more into the centre of the bed. Then he turned me over and slid down to start kissing and massaging my cheeks and then licking and sliding his fingers all around me again. I was shaking and groaning and then pulled one of the pillows down under my tummy as he got off the bed to go to find his jacket.

I could feel him kneeling back on the bed and then licking at me again, his tongue probing and swirling and pushing. It all feels so slow and gentle when he is kissing and touching me like this. He just lifts me up onto my knees and I just pull the pillow tighter into me, my legs sliding wider when I feel him against me. I know I get quite loud as we rock back and forth and I consciously bury my face into the top of the pillow so that I don’t have to lose my concentration and the straining and pushing. I could hear him coming and I wanted him to keep pushing so I turned my head away from the pillow so that I could gasp out “do me, do me” before he could pull away. Those final moments of thrusting and then the sensation of him popping out are just so exhausting that I have to turn my face back into the pillow to stifle my screams.

Afterwards we just lay together, not talking or saying anything, until he starts kissing my back and arm and we slowly recover ourselves and cuddle-up into each other again. We dozed for ages before my phone alarm went off. Sometimes it’s really difficult, and unsettling, to get up and stagger around to find where I’ve put my bag and turn it off. S continued to lie on the bed, but I sat down on the edge and sipped some water, rubbing his back after awhile and telling him we would have to be getting home.

By the time I eventually talked him into getting up and we got dressed and made our way down to the car park it was almost 1 a.m. J was waiting up for me on the sofa as he always does. As I took my coat off the disappointed look on his face reminded me that I’d promised him that I’d come home with nothing on but my coat . . . but his disappointment didn’t last long as I undressed and sat down on his lap to recount the events of my evening!!!

Jennifer Aniston tell John Mayer to Shut His Trap


Jennifer Aniston made sure to tell John Mayer that he better keep his trap shut this time around. And not only his mouth, he better keep his fingers to himself... at least when it comes to blogging. 

Jennifer Aniston wants to keep their relationship private and intimate rather than constantly sharing every mover they make with TMZ. I'm not sure if John Mayer can handle that, but then, I'm sure he already got all the publicity he needed the first time around. 

Stay tuned for more news on their quintuplet pregnancy and upcoming shotgun wedding.

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Will Ferrell is George Bush on SNL

Will Ferrell has made a comeback on SNL as George Bush because you know he does the best Dubya on earth. And, of course, Tina Fey returned as Sarah Palin, so it was fun all around.

As the alum returned to portray two of the most intelligent political stars in American history, save for Dan Quayle, it was hilarity all around as Tina Fey's Sarah Palin and Will Ferrell's George Bush get down and dirty. No, not that way, perv.

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Shirtless Celeb of the Day – Justin Gaston

Miley Cyrus has landed the big one in Justin Gaston. Sure Justin Gaston is likely immature and has his drunken stupidity moments, but all that really matters is that Justin Gaston has a great set of abs and looks awesome in underwear. Even briefs.

Justin Gaston is smart enough to date one of the most famous girls in the world... this will help get the Justin Gaston name out there. Think of him as the new Sarah Larson.

Needless to say, Justin Gaston has already won me over with his cool hair, perfect body and guitar, which he wears slung over his shoulder every now and then. Ay, ay, ay.




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Elisabeth Hasselbeck’s McCain Shirt Gets Heat


So Elisabeth Hasselbeck has opted to voice her Republican beliefs by creating T-shirts that promote John McCain and she wore it on an episode of The View. Joy Behar called her on it and Elisabeth Hasselbeck fired back that Joy Behar always promotes her politically charged comedy routines on the show, so there.

Well, as you can imagine, that didn't fare well with Joy Behar and I'm certain she kicked the crap out of her backstage, but all that really matters is that Elisabeth Hasselbeck designed that T-shirt herself.

I mean, you gotta give credit where credit is due. Now let's get Barack to business.

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George Clooney Dating Krista Allen Again

Well, after the fiasco that was Sarah Larson, George Clooney has opted to jump back into bed with Krista Allen for the thrid time. He used to always run back to Lisa Snowdon when he was on the rebound, but it seems that Krista Allen has suddenly taken her place.

Krista Allen and George Clooney were hot and heavy between 2002 and 2004 but she broke things off when George Clooney told her that he would never marry her or anyone else for that matter.

But Krista Allen and George Clooney seem to have a soft spot for each other. That, and, well, they're both pretty hot and must engage in some crazy sex.

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50 Cent’s The Money and The Power on MTV

Looks like even 50 Cent has jumped on the reality show bandwagon and wants to cash in. Go, go, go...

50 Cent plans to do a reality show called The Money and The Power on MTV starting November 6, 2008, and the show is essentially like The Apprentice, except that, instead of "You're Fired," 50 Cent will tell those dismissed to "Get the f*ck outta here."

It looks like it could be interesting as 50 Cent pits books smarts against street smarts. Unfotunately, it seems like all 14 contestants are about ready to go gangsta on each other. Waving their fingers in the air and talking like they're trying out for an ebonics competition.

My favorite part of the trailer is when he tells one girl that she's a "poor man's Lil' Kim." I mean, come on, Lil' Kim is a poor man's Lil' Kim.

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