Back to Jack…
As he crawled into bed with me, I felt the warmth of his half naked body against mine and even though I really was looking for the basic comfort of his body, my nipples strained against my t-shirt.This did not go unnoticed, but Jack being Jack, he didn't mention it. He knows when to speak and when not to and this was definitely not the time.
Instead he sidled up next to me and I again put my head on his chest, laying in the crook of his arm.
He again stroked my hair and whispered against me.
It's the whispering. That damned whispering gets me every time.
I began to cry again. Silent tears, all but unnoticed until they of course rolled down the side of my cheek and onto his bare chest.
Wordlessly he reached out and wiped them away with his thumb before rolling over onto his side, facing me.
"You have to stop being so comforting" I said with a half smile. He smiled back, understanding... It was, after all, precisely why I was there.
"Yes, damn me for being a pillar of strength" he laughed, and got out of bed, padding to the kitchen. He came back a few minutes later with some aspirin and a glass of icy water.
I shook my head as he stood there waiting for me to take them from him.
"Are you trying to be my daddy?" I asked, half-flirting.
"Do you want me to be?" he whispered as I took the glass in my shaking hand.
"Yes" I whispered back as he bent forward and kissed me.
Oh YES.
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Her Scent…
I love the smell of a woman's body. Her scent is something that gets me really turned on. Along with that, is the taste. Not just the obvious places but also her neck, the taste of her skin as I run my tongue down her belly, or along the tender skin of her inner arms.I love love love kissing and licking Storm, EVERYWHERE. I can't get enough of her taste and sometimes I lie between her legs and bury my nose and inhale.
But Storm barely has any scent. She isn't OCD or anything, but still it is only the rare occasion when I can actually smell her.
So the other day I asked her if she would do something for me.
I asked her if she would stop shaving her pussy for a while.
She nodded and said she would but kind of looked at me like she wasn't clear as to why. So I explained it. I had the whole speech laid out in my head and when I got finished, barely breathing throughout the entire thing, she laughed and hugged me and said she would.
I know guys like women to be shaved, or at least trimmed, and trimmed is fine, but I think in this instance I am missing something. I feel kind of selfish asking this but she thinks I am being silly. She says it is no big deal, and since she isn't really hairy anyway, keeping neatly trimmed will not be a big deal for her. I offered to do it for her, and at any time it's her choice if she wants to switch back to shaving, the same as it would be if she had decided one day she wanted to stop shaving.
I don't have any "hair" fetishes, so that isn't it.
I just want to be able to smell and taste her pussy and I think this will "help". I might be wrong.
So I ask you, readers, is this weird for me to want this? Or selfish of me to ask?
I know, anything someone is into is not weird, and yada yada and all that. I'm comfortable with all my sexual perversions and desires, so it isn't about that.
I just want to know if anyone else has asked something similar of their lover?
Storm didn't bat an eye about it. She thought it was cute that I was so concerned.
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Alpha males, beta boys
There’s the type of guy who yanks a girl’s hair back and pulls her skirt up in the corner of a deserted physics lab.
And then there’s the type of guy who gives head all night and doesn’t want anything in return.
Alpha males and beta boys — there’s pros and cons to each type.
Alphas are gods in bed because they’ve mastered all the tricks in the book and then some, and they’ve got all kinds of manskills to woo a girl. In relationships, though, they tend to be aggressive chauvinists.
Betas know how to please a girl through his sensitivity to her body language, but he lacks the extra umph to make the experience a wild ride. These guys, though emotionally available and sensitive to girls’ utmost needs, tend to become like lost little puppies and their lack of independence can be a total turn-off.
Seems having to pick one over the other is a vain attempt at choosing the lesser of two evils. But hey, who says a girl can’t have both? I’ll go ahead and have one of each.
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Flowers, chocolates and diamonds, oh my!
Invited to lunch by a girlfriend I hadn’t heard from in a while, I know she’s having problems with her man. That’s how it goes; a girl disappears when she finds herself a new man, and reapperas on the radar when he starts acting up.
So starts the boyfriend-bashing: she had caught him with another girl. She then goes on to say that he had called her a couple days after the incident to apologize.
“Well, what exactly did he say?” I ask.
“He offered me some molly,” she says.
I choke on my linguini as a frantically muster a “and you forgave him?”
“I guess so,” she replies with a shrug.
Apparently, molly is the new “I’m sorry” item for guys who screw up, and it works. Forget flowers, chocolates and diamonds. It’s all about drugs, not hugs.
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Sex on the first date
According to the November issue of Cosmo, the hot bachelors or 2008 as chosen by the magazine’s editors say that sex on the first date shows that a girl is skanky and that she isn’t relationship material.
Newsflash, boys: we think the same thing when you put out, too.
The hell with girls having to play innocent while the guys high-five each other as they rack up their numbers. It’s called a double standard, and it’s way outdated.
In any case, the “so, what kind of music do you listen to” small talk and the “should I or should I not invite him upstairs” pause at the end of the night after the first date is unbearably uncomfortable, anyway.
So screw first dates all together.
What about a “getting to know you” session out on the dance floor and then an “I can barely hear you but whatever” conversation at the bar over a rum and coke? And then we ’ll skip the “should I or should I not” and just go on upstairs. Hell, I’ll just start taking his shirt off right there at the door.
Take that, hot bachelors of 2008.
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Its Not Between Bad Boys and Nice Guys Anymore
I have to admit this was a distinction that a respected member on the forum RSDNation "Rockavon" made on one of his posts.I love rsdnation. Its a great high traffic forum filled with aspiring “Pick Up Artists” as well as high quality instructors which facilitates some great quality content, and pretty much everything you would want to know or would need to know about how to get better with women.
So I know we have many debates about the Bad Boy vs Nice Guy. Well I’m here to talk about a paradigm shift and to say that maybe its neither that is getting the girls.
So if its not the bad boys. And its not the nice guys. Who is really winning? Well the Good Guy. Rockavon shares some of the characteristics of a Good Guy.
Boys and Girls, please read on and tell me what you think.
The Good Guy
He gets out of the house and is really social.He uses his value based reality to naturally become selective.
He encourages the girl to GAME him.
He rewards good behavior with displays of intent.
He takes care of himself and his body and his avatar so he is always looking and feeling his best.
He is willing to walk away at any moment or disqualify himself at the sight of second class behavior that doesn't live up to his expectations.
He is above all the petty stuff that people do, his self esteem is too high for that stuff to affect him and his ego is in check.
He is un-reactive to button pushing because his ego is in check and his self esteem is too high.
He knows how to lead, escalate, and kino(touch)
He knows how to quickly screen for logistics
He knows how to qualify authentically at the right time
He is not too easily won over but always somewhat interested
He is in touch with his sexual core
Now while some of these terms you may not be sure what they mean, I hope you are able to get an overall scope of what a good guy is. All I was thinking while I was reading that list is Hot, Hot, Hot.
Girls, I dare you to challenge me and tell me this is something that you wouldn’t find appealing!
So if that is a definition of a good guy, then what is a nice guy? Well its my belief that nice guys don’t get girls.
Haven’t you noticed that every hot chick will have at least ONE male best friend who we all know is secretly IN LOVE with her, but just can’t seem to figure out how to get her to like him?
Come’on girls spill the truth here.
I see it EVERYWHERE!
Ok so what do I believe are some of the characteristics of a nice, needy and insecure guy?
Read on ….
The Nice Guy
He will do anything and everything to please his woman
He seeks approval and praise constantly
He is emotionally unstable and relies on situations, other people and external influences to make him happy
He self esteem could do some work
He may not believe that he is worthy of a particular girl or type
He is to a certain extent socially impaired
He sets no clear boundaries with women
He thinks that being friends with a woman will increase his chances of dating her
He denies/suppresses his sexual needs
He can also come across as sexually needy
He thinks the nicer he is to a woman the more they will like him
He apologizes for this actions and his thoughts, worried that he will offend her
He thinks the more time he spends with a woman the more she will like him
He has very little idea of how the game works
He may see learning about pick up as manipulative rather than a personal development journey.
Now here is the thing guys. Its no longer the bad boys vs. the nice guy.
Its the good guys that are winning the race. These are the guys with generally good hearts, with social apt and the strength and unapologetic nature of a bad boy.
These are your pick up artists who learn through books, coaching and experience .. on how to really sweep you off your feet.
Nothing wrong with that. Bring em on.
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A Beautiful Tree, A Beautiful Boy….
So this is the only picture we could even get of the tree, which was taken on one of our phones, but it shows we actually DID decorate it!
Of course, when we were finished with the lights, and the sun had faded, we decided to take a break.
Like teenagers, we fell onto the couch, his cock poking me in the hip as we kissed. We knew we only had a set amount of time before my daughter and her fiancee came home.
As I reached into his jeans and pulled out his gorgeous cock, it began to drip in my hand.
I pushed him off me, startling him and sat up on the couch. The great thing about Finn is never having to explain what I want him to do. He may be surprised at first, but he catches on immediately.
He stood in front of me, back to the front hallway (and front door) while I took his cock in my mouth. It wasn't until I had been savoring it for about 20 minutes that he finally grabbed my hair and urged me to please let him cum.
I looked up into those gorgeous eyes of his, all the while stroking his cock.
Then, my text alert on my phone signaled the impending arrival we were expecting.
The look on his face was priceless. He held his breath, wondering how long we had.
"We have all the time in the world if we just move to the bedroom" he suggested eagerly.
"Oh but that wouldn't be as much fun" I replied, grinning mischievously at him.
He was not amused. If he could have stomped his feet he would have.
Poor baby.
But then I had read the message and knew something he didn't. They were only coming home for a few minutes before going out to a friend's for the evening.
"They'll be home in 5 minutes. We'll have to resume this later" I said as I carefully laid his cock against his belly and tried in vain to get his jeans zipped up. He grabbed it and got the zipper up but he was really agitated.
I LOVE when he is agitated. He's just so cute. He paces and runs his hands through his hair and grumbles.
I ignored him for the most part and he finally calmed down.
Of course, the next look was even better than the first when my daughter ran in, announced they were going to a friend's and ran out.
I looked at Finn who looked clearly annoyed. He stood up, walked to the front door and watched them drive away.
Then he walked back into the living room.
I held my breath because he really did look mad, which would be so unlike him.
Then a smile broke out on his face.
"We should get these ornaments on the tree" he said, grinning.
Not missing a beat, I turned and agreed.
And we did get the ornaments on the tree.
But first I got pinned down and fucked on the floor in front of it.
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Lights…….. Action!
Finn and I are putting lights and ornaments on the tree today.I'm a bit late this year. Although last year, Johnny and I bought a tree on the 20th I think. We got a great deal because it was crazy cold, like today, and so close to Christmas.
So Finn is on his way over, and I have a Santa hat for him to wear.
That's all. Just a Santa hat.
I don't really want him in anything else.
I like my men in minimal holiday clothing.
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Wine with Dinner…
Of course, there was wine with dinner. Lots of wine actually.
Finally, after the wine had relaxed me, Jack asked if I was tired. I was exhausted by this point. I had cried on his shoulder, we had talked for hours, and he had fed me an amazing meal.
I nodded, and yawned. He laughed.
Then, the pregnant pause.
Shuffling feet, hands in pockets. Metaphorically speaking anyway.
"I can sleep out here on the couch if you like. You take the bed. You need sleep." he said, and the color rose in his cheeks.
Or did I imagine that?
I felt a twinge of disappointment but was too tired to think it through so I got up and started getting ready for bed.
A few minutes later, I fell into the crisp linen sheets and pulled the covers up around me.
Jack came in, kissed me chastely goodnight, and tucked me in before leaving, flipping the light out as he left the room. He left the door cracked and I fell asleep with the sound of music playing in the living room, and the sureness of his footfall on the wood floors.
A while later I rolled over and reached for him but he was not there.
"Jack" I whispered into his pillow, snuggling into the covers.
And then I saw him, standing in the doorway in pajama bottoms, leaning against the frame, arms crossed over his chest.
I tossed back the covers as he crossed the room and slid into bed next to me. The light from the other room crept in to light his frame before we burrowed into the blankets and it all but disappeared.
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Would It Be Easier To Approach A Surrendered Single?
So lets just get this straight. For the men and women, what is a surrendered single? And why would it be easier to approach her?This was a concept developed by Laura Doyle in her book titled ... The Surrendered Single. What I love about this book is its controversial. Women get caught off guard by some of the things that are mentioned in here. Most importantly it goes against the grain of how women should act in the modern society we live in today, where women and men are continually playing on equal fields.
So what exactly does she say?
What is a Surrendered Single? And just what is she surrendering—and to whom?
A Surrendered Single recognizes that if she wants to attract the man with whom she can develop intimacy, she cannot control relationships. She cannot determine who asks her out, how he'll do it, when he'll call or e-mail, or if he'll commit to her. A Surrendered Single may have unwittingly been trying to control, manipulate and force relationships previously, but no more.
The basic principles of a Surrendered Single are that she:
* Acknowledges her desire to attract and marry a man who's right for her
* Lets go of the idea of a perfect man
* Receives compliments, gifts, help and dates graciously whenever possible
* Takes responsibility for and focuses on her own happiness and fulfillment
* Relinquishes control of the pace of the courtship
* Strives to be vulnerable
* Honors her desire to be married by ending dead-end relationships
* Checks for safety before she risks herself physically or emotionally
A Surrendered Single is:
* Open where she was guarded
* Optimistic where she was cynical
* Feminine where she was tough
* Gracious where once fended for herself
* Respectful where she used to feel superior
A Surrendered Single lets go of the negative beliefs she's been holding onto like a security blanket, such as:
* There are no good single men out there
* I'm too old to attract someone
* Dating is too much trouble
At first surrendering will feel awkward and frightening.
But so what? No one ever died from these feelings. They're trivial compared to the payoff.
Who's Afraid of Dating?
“A person usually has two reasons for doing something: a good reason and the real reason.”
– Thomas Carlyle
Every strong, single woman I know rolls her eyes when I suggest that lack of faith and fear are what keep her alone. She doesn't typically think of herself as scared because she's built a career and a terrific circle of friends, stood up to dozens of men, and often even raised a child alone. She is capable and hearty.
And she's through with “having faith” because so far, it hasn't done a thing for her. (Or so she thinks.) In fact, the very word is disconcerting to her. Truth is, her faith is as out of shape as her first little black dress, and it's as worn as the fabulous heels she bought to go with it.
This is understandable. When we believe that something will happen, but have no control over whether it does, the possibility of disappointment looms. What could be more disappointing than believing he's out there, and never finding him? We'd be faced with thinking that there's something wrong with us. To protect herself, the single woman does a funny little sidestep.
She goes into the world with good intentions to find someone who has all the characteristics she wants in a partner. She makes a list of these characteristics by starting with what she knows will meet her parents' approval and what her friends will like. Unfortunately, her list is now both restrictive and irrelevant since it has nothing to do with her own desires.
Each potential suitor is measured against his ability to fit into her complicated jigsaw puzzle of the perfect guy.
Now I will admit that this was one of the first books I ever read about understanding more about the dating game on women.
And I will also admit that it resonated with me on a level so great that it has transformed my beliefs and my life today.
I incorporate a lot of my posts based on what she is saying here. Basically her book is getting women to giving up the need to control their dating life. The need to control the type of man they will marry, how he should act, what he should look like.
Surrendering is about getting in contact with that natural feminine energy that all women possess and that all men love.
Yes we live in different times today. Women are more independent than they have ever been before, but I really believe that somewhere along the line the message got mixed up.
Women now assume that in order to get the right man, they have to be the man. Then they find a guy who is easy to command, easy to walk over and easy to disrespect and then wonder why they get bored.
Women complain that men just aren't challenging enough today, that there are no good men out there and that simply no one can keep up with them.
This book finally puts all the responsibility back on you. And its great that it does that, because then you finally have the power to change it.
I will admit if you are a strong minded woman, reading this can turn your beliefs inside out and upside down but I have to say that every woman HAS to read this book. It will probably save your dating life, stop the confusion and allow you to see the real truth.
Now I pose the title of my post to men. Would you date a surrendered single? Would you approach a surrendered single? Because what if I said that a surrendered single would more likely smile instead of scowl, accept instead of reject, look at you instead of away ...
Wouldn't that make her approachable because then the likelihood of her rejecting you would be smaller and her vulnerability would allow you to be more yourself?
See when you don't perceive approaching a woman to be associated with acceptance or rejection and just simply as having a conversation with a woman .. doesn't that take the pressure of?
So what is my conclusion. The surrendered single, works better for both boys and girls! I'm sure you all want to give in your thoughts. So as usual hit me back, coz I'm listening!
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