Unprotected Sex
My boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years. We swing, but usually practice safe sex – condoms, etc. Last month, we were with a couple that we’ve known for years, had too much to drink and did not practice safe sex! Immediately after our friend came inside me, my partner went down on me. It seems that he has developed a taste for “cream pies”. Ever since, he has insisted on unprotected sex and cleaning me out afterwards. I have two questions. Although I am on the pill and am not worried about conception, I am worried about diseases. How likely is it that either my partner or I can get a disease through this? The other question is I worry that my partner might be gay. If he likes men’s cum so much, maybe he’s using me just to have sex with men indirectly. Do you think I’m crazy?
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WOW! hmmm… ok, unprotected sex is never a good idea especially if you know the person you’re sexing is also sexing with others. But that isn’t really the point of your post.
I don’t believe guys go for cream pies because they’re gay. They do it because in their mind it’s the ultimate act of adoration for you. Think about it! This guy is so in lust with you he’s doing THAT! So, my suggestion is enjoy it because it does feel awesome and it does make you feel powerful!
eeew.. OMG! Y’all as so freaky here! Sounds fun I just haven’t progressed that far so I’m probably not qualified to give advice but I have to agree with Skyla. The only real problem is the unprotected sex. He doesn’t sound gay, just excited to please you.
I had a guy do this to me once and I must confess I’d like it again. The physical feeling was awesome. And he wasn’t gay! (not that there’s anything wrong with that!)
As far as unprotected sex goes, your chances of acquiring a disease is proportionate to the number of partners your partners also have unprotected sex with. If you want to continue this kind of play with them then all of you should get tested and provide the results to each other and then agree to not have unprotected sex with anyone else.
As for your boyfriend, I don’t think he’s gay. He just is really, really turned-on by this sort of sexual activity. I know I am. I love to go down on my wife after I’ve had sex with her or someone else has. I’m not gay by any means, however there is something very primal about it that triggers something in me and gets me even more excited.
Remember, different things turn different people on differently.
I think the danger is directed towards you more than him disease wise. About him using you to have sex with men, I don’t think its the case at all, its just the taboo of it, straight men are not supposed to eat creampies, its just a thrill. If he wanted the guy, he would have sucked him off, since everybody was drunk, drunk people lose inhibitions. So relax, but stick to one tested couple for the creampies escapades…
He’s probably not gay. The thought of cleaning a woman after being with another man turns me on too and it’s more that it’s just not something a guy is supposed to do so the wrongness of it kinda makes it very exciting. Most likely he’s in the same boat. Although , there could still be a small chance he’s gay.
The STI/D is very much a concern that both of you need to assess and acept the risks for, plus go to a GUM clinic and be tested regularly.
In relation to the creampies that’s a very different matter, most Cuckolds I know are so turned on by doing this to their partner/wife. It does a few things, firstly it shows they accept the fact 100% that she’s had another man. To go down on a woman leaking cum is an act of abject commitment to her and what she has just done. Secondly it’s an act of adoration that shows the woman that even though she may have just acted like a slut with another man, her cuckold still worships her and is sexually turned on by her sensuality. You would never want to subject yourself to doing this to a partner unless you adore her and are so in love with her.
Lastly by him sucking your lovers cum from you he’s cleaning you from the cuckold and making you pure again for him.
It’s YOU he wants to go down on! It’s acknowledgment of your superior position and power in your relationship.
I have had ex’s cum in me, then in the passionate excitement have him eat me out immediately! it really doesn’t mean he is gay. In all cases, usually the next morning I’d force a conversation out of them about how they felt, they all loved the fall into inferiority to me but hated the taste and pride loss! It is a real turn on and i intend to do it with every bf i have. Unfortuantely I have a tough one who keeps wriggling out of my intent, but i will get him and when i do I’ll make sure it’s messy!