Surprise !!
Well, today was a surprise day. I had all sorts of errands to run and when I finally came home and logged in, F starts chatting with me. It's not long till the conversation drifts to what are his plans for today... So we decide to meet up for a little 'chatting' session.Before logging off, I tell him I'm so happy now. He replies, Really ? I tell him ,Yes really. I'm always happy to see you or to talk to you for that matter. He says, You're nice. I tell him, Well, what do you think ? I care about you a lot. He says, I do too. I tell him, Really ? You're nice. See you later.
So we meet up. He climbs in my van. We drive for a bit. Pass in front of his childhood school. In his childhood neighborhood. We find a secluded spot and we continue talking. He leans over and starts kissing me. I love it when he kisses me. He looks me in the eyes while doing so. He has the cutest blue eyes. Ooohhh I love kissing him.
We then head in the back of the van where we continue kissing. I start taking his jeans off and stroking his nice thick cock. I keep looking at him while I touch him. He's moaning. Hummmm it's so nice. I take him in my mouth, lick him good, suck him gently. I stop and start kissing him again. We can't seem to stop kissing. I go back to take care of his cock. It lasts a while and he comes in my mouth. He tastes so good. I lick him all up and come back up. He starts kissing me again. Takes me in his arms. I kiss him all over. I tell him : 'I feel so good with you'. He says : 'Me too, I feel so good in your arms'. We continue to hug and kiss until it's time to go. I drive him back to his car. He asks me if the kids go to the babysitter tomorrow. I tell him, yes for this Friday they do. Want to do it again ? We start laughing a bit. Maybe I'll have another surprise tomorrow, who knows ? Knowing him, I'd doubt it, but lately he's been really surprising me with his sweetness.
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Hopeful for the weekend!!
Had a lovely night with J on Tuesday. He'd been working late and had told me on the phone when he called that he was shattered and not in the best of moods. But he cheered up immediately when he walked in and saw my new hair and then especially when I whispered that "I've had a new waxing as well".My daughter asked over dinner if she could go away on Friday evening for the weekend to friends, which after the usual questions and warnings about behaviour and being careful, we agreed to. After she went upstairs I asked J if he really had to work at the weekend as we could have some "quality time alone". But he reluctantly said he just couldn't get out of it. (He has a big contract). He joked that perhaps I should ask R for a "home visit massage". I replied "I may invite S over instead!" That really got him going . . .
Yesterday I spoke to S and he said he had golf booked for the afternoon on Saturday, but would gladly cancel "if you insist".
I insisted . . . !!!
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Family Drama
I have decided to move my family drama topics over to a new blog that I have created. If you are interested in wacko, dysfunctional families, then you might be interested in reading my new blog.I've been down with the flu lately, and will be blogging here as soon as I build my energy up again!
xoxo
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Ramblings…
Well, consider yourself warned, this post isn't gonna be very structured :) I've got a few things on my mind and have to get them out.The other night, I was online and Salsa boy starts talking with me... I had been telling him that I had things on my mind (regarding S... I'll talk about that later) and that I had no interest of seeing him for now. Which was true, but as you might have noticed, I'm weeding out a lot, so I didn't want to lead him on as I know I wouldn't see him, ever. But being the nice girl that I am, I keep talking and being polite. He sends me a cam request. I tell him that I'm doing my taxes. He says it won't be long, he has something to show me. So I oblige. Why is it never a puppy or something ? He's sitting there naked. Stroking his cock, telling me I make him hard. Grrrrrrrr ! I had no interest in seeing *that*. Don't get me wrong, I love looking at a nice cock (licking and touching too) but not *any* one. I shut his cam off, told him I had a Msn problem and left. I don't know how to tell him so he'll understand.
S now... Well, we've had issues and fights from time to time. I wanted to end things and wasn't able to actually do it. I kept telling him that he cannot just talk to me when he wants to fuck. He was making efforts. I told him that if he was making 'efforts' he didn't really feel like it. He had troubles accepting that I didn't want to see him anymore. He told me he was in love with me, that he had me under his skin, that he couldn't stop thinking about me. I told him it was too late. He said I couldn't do that to him, and we had to see each other one last time. So I caved in. He came over. We talked. I cried (I hate hurting people). But it didn't make me change my mind. We talked a few days after that. He thought he 'had' me back since I was crying. I told him nothing is changing, that I need a lover, not a fuck-friend. He called me names, insulted me, my husband, my other lover (which he's sure I have since I don't want him anymore). He told me I don't know what he's capable of when he doesn't have something he wants. Menaced to hurt himself, menaced to hurt me. He's not really constant, so he doesn't really scare me. He says stuff to get reaction and it doesn't work. He said that he'll delete me and forget me and that I'll never hear from him again. So far, I haven't. Somehow, I have a doubt. I was feeling so so so bad when it was going on, I hope he came to peace with it and that his life will go on.
By the way... Mr. Singer's song is playing on the radio right now... I'm fucking him hehe :p
I spoke with F this weekend. He's not online very much. Said he missed me and can't wait to see me, so that was sweet.
Yesterday I was chatting with The One that Can't Be Named (well... I talk with him all weekdays long still). He said he was back, I told him I missed him, he said that's good, I told him how come ?, he said cause it shows you care about me. I found it sweet. I can't wait to see him again. I don't know when that will be. All I know is that everytime I see him, I can't get enough. And I sense it's the same for him. His lips are on mine as soon as we get together. Maybe because we don't get together very much... but I do crave him a lot :p
And there's that kinky, intriguing, interesting side of Me that still needs exploring... hopefully soon :p
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Guest Blogger: Angela
The more you put yourself out there, the more people come to you! I have been emailing back and forth with today’s guest blogger, Angela, because she’s writing a book on fetishes, kinks, and fantasies. She would like some help from my blog readers! Please respond to this blog entry with your comments and answers to her questions. I want this to be a great help to her, so get to work! 
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Hi everyone,
My name is Angela and I’m an Australian doing some research for an upcoming publication on fetishes and kink. Jinxy has been kind enough to help with me some information on cuckolding and also given me the opportunity to pose some questions here on her blog to those of you interested in cuckolding.
First off I’m interested to know what attracts a man to being a cuck. Some of you will be already living this lifestyle (i.e. doing it with their wife or partner) and for some of you the interest remains a fantasy that you enjoy by reading blogs such as this or visiting cuckolding websites. Either way:
(1) what is it about cuckolding that makes you hot?
(2) what part (if any) does humiliation play in this for you?
From my reading about it, cuckolding is often put together with femdom, as it can be part of the Dom/sub dynamic for some couples.
(3) Do any of you who enjoy cuckolding think of themselves as a submissive, or is this idea off track?
I’m keeping my questions short and sweet, as I’d like to just keep this informal and see where the chat takes us!
It would really help me if when you replied you gave some small amount of detail about yourself (nothing incriminating of course 
), things such are you married, are you actively a cuck, just fantasing about being a cuck, has there been more than one partner who has cuckolded with you, what sort of profession do you work in, what age bracket are you in.
Thanks ahead of time to all of you that take the time to share!
Cheers,
Angela
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Bending Your Boyfriends Over!
As adult videos become more and more mainstream, it should come as no surprise women are expanding their sexual repertoire by experimenting with some of the things performers in these movies do. If your bag of carnal tricks doesn’t include “pegging” yet, rest assured this bedroom role reversing power play will soon be appearing in one of your upcoming booty calls!
Putting it bluntly, pegging refers to women engaging in anal sex with her men using a strap-on sex toy. Whew! Now that we’ve gotten that visual out the way, it’s time to discuss the awesome potential for sexually intense role play it offers for both you and him.
The term “pegging” was originally coined by sex columnist Dan Savage (a male version of Carrie Bradshaw.) An alternate term is BOB, an acronym for Bend Over Boyfriend. While it certainly isn’t everyone’s cup of latte, many women who do it express a unique feeling of power and liberation. “It’s the difference between fucking and getting fucked,” offers Andrea Nelson, a twenty-something bank manager in Miami.
Taking His Virginity
“It hurts!”
Anal sex only hurts if you’re doing it incorrectly. The majority of us carry a lot of tension in our assholes–the same way we carry stress in our shoulders. Pain results when an object is forced through tight sphincter muscles, damaging the delicate anal tissues. If anal sex ever hurts, you should stop or take the stimulation back a notch. Remember–the key to anal pleasure is relaxation and lubrication! Pain is a warning signal from our bodies that we should take seriously.“It gives you hemorrhoids (and/or uncontrollable bowels)!”
Most people find that when they start exploring butt play, their anal health improves. All muscles benefit from the increased circulation that results from exercise and relaxation.“It’s messy!”
Although you’re likely to encounter some poop in your anal sex career, it’s probably going to be a lot less than you imagined. Most anal play engages only the first few inches of the anus and rectum, which do not store feces. Most people find that a thorough wash in the shower does the trick for removing any surface grime.“It means he’s gay!”
People of all genders and orientations enjoy anal play. We all have butts! Besides, it’s a myth that all gay men only have anal sex. In fact, the majority of gay men report that oral sex is their favorite sexual activity. As Playgirl magazine once wrote on this topic, the activity is gender-neutral. Attracted to a gender is the identity. (from Babeland)
“The idea certainly didn’t appeal to me the first time the subject came up,” Andrea explains. “I thought it was gay, like he really wanted to be with a man and not me!” But (butt?) after talking it over with several of her friends, she gained a new perspective. “It was like he wanted to give himself to me, for me to pop his cherry – so to speak. And it does make me feel more empowered. I’m fucking him, he’s not fucking me!”
Ride ‘em Cowgirl!
Fatale Media offers an informational and enjoyable series of DVDs on the subject of pegging created especially for women. Bend Over Boyfriend Part 1 stars sex educators Carol Queen and Robert Morgan and takes viewers on a by step journey into pegging, providing useful tips and advice on building your confidence to approach your men about anal sex, how to find the right strapon (size matters!) and how to fuck him so it doesn’t hurt…much. Role-playing and fantasy are also explored to a degree and it asks the all important question, ‘what do women get out of this?’ The answer – when a dildo is strapped on it’s usually positioned right over your clit and you have rhythmic sensations right where it counts. There’s also a very emotional and empowering aspect to penetrating your partner. Just ask your men how the feel when they fuck you! Although vol. 1 seems more like a how-to guide than something meant to excite women about screwing their men’s asses, this doesn’t mean the DVD isn’t hot and nasty. It has plenty of action with attractive and loving couples. It just serves as a necessary introduction to the far more explicit and delicious second DVD in the series.
Bend Over Boyfriend Part 2 once again features Dr. Carol Queen but also includes porn star Chloe. Using a news reporter interviewing customers at an adult toy store as a set-up, it has more of a traditional adult movie feel than part 1 has and features several viginettes of four couples and one very hot threesome scene where the guys definitely get theirs “in the end.” Full of wicked anal sex from a female perspective, Bend Over Boyfriend part 2 is a must-have for any girl who is looking to expand her sensual horizons.
Power Shopping!
There is simply no better way to introduce your men to the world of male penetration than with this perfect package. Start with the Bend Over Boyfriend DVDs, an entertaining, informative, and arousing tutorial series that will not just tell you what you need to know, but will also SHOW you. Next up is the Bend Over Beginner Kit. With its two slim silicone dildos and its velvety soft harness, this Kit is just the key to unlocking your boyfriend’s back door and letting you both in on a whole new world of pleasure.
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Cheating … Should You Tell Your Partner?
Now I'm sure if you are a person that has never been cheated on or done the cheating you definitely know someone who has.I'm hesitant to write about this situation - because I've never cheated or been cheated on (that I know of). So I'm worried that my perspective may be slightly skewed and just plain down right unrealistic.
But I'm going to continue writing anyway. The truth is that besides the fact that I have never been in the situation before, I have definitely seen my friends and people I care about go through the emotional turmoil.
Lets admit it, cheating makes things pretty messy. The fact is, its easy to say what you will or won't do. Like "I'll never cheat" or blurt out clichés like "once a cheater always a cheater", but until you are in a particular situation, who knows what you will really do.
Now first lets define what cheating is. Does that mean having some sort of a physical relationship with someone else, no matter how brief?
Does a kiss on the lips with someone other than your partner constitute as cheating? Does opening up to someone on an emotional level in addition to your partner constitute as emotional cheating and is therefore just as treacherous?
I'm the kind of girl that loves black and white, right and wrong. But I've learnt that there are a lot of life situations where shades are grey, are all that exist.
Cheating is one of these areas.
So to get us all running off the same base, lets just say that you have slept with someone else other than your partner. Lets say it was once and you wish to purse no other relationship with this partner in crime.
What do you do?
Are you part of the "what he/she doesn't know can't hurt him/her" team?
Or are you more of an advocate of "he/she has a right to know" team?
Here is what I think.
Many argue that option A is better, because the act of telling your partner that you cheated on them, gives them the burden of bearing your own guilt.
The fact is that "you" made the wrong decision and therefore you have to bear the consequences of withholding it to just yourself.
People say that this option is better because then the relationship can continue its course and no one will be the wiser. You learnt your lesson. You know how you feel about your partner and you want to continue a relationship with them.
My thoughts? Taking this option is simply the easy way out. You convince yourself your doing your partner a favor by sparing them the pain of finding out that you were unfaithful to them.
Well reality check. You still did it. And that is not going to change anything. I think its naive, ignorant and highly selfish to make that decision on your partner’s behalf.
When you entered into a relationship you also created a contract - which I believe involves honesty and respect.
What is honest and respectful about not telling you partner the truth?
I think the real reason why people don't want to tell a partner of their infidelity is because they are scared of losing them.
Scared that telling the truth will completely abolish everything they have worked so hard to create.
But let me tell you this. Honesty is always the best policy. Let me just play it out for you.
You do tell him/him. They can't forgive you and you guys end the relationship - learn your lessons and move on. Did you have something so "real" anyway if you had to go somewhere outside that relationship to get your needs met and couldn't communicate your way out of it?
You do tell him/her. You guys fight. Your both hurt. You communicate through it. You learn to develop a deeper trust for eachother, set new boundaries, learn to meet eachother needs and the relationship actually gets taken to a whole new level.
Some of you may think that option B is a utopian way of looking at it. The truth is, that many couples work through cheating and come out stronger at the end of it.
For me this topic is really about whether you have the guts to face your fears, to own up to something that is going to eat at you for years anyways and a chance to learn something new about yourself.
Why would you run away and want to avoid that? Life wasn't meant to be easy. Its there for us to challenge our fears and face the truth.
I'm sure a lot of you have things to say about this. But what are your thoughts? If you have cheated on a partner, should you tell them or not. If so why/why not?
Looking forward to your comments
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Why Does She Keep Dumping Me?
I'm sure there are many of YOU guys who have gone through a breakup - where the girl has clearly dumped you.
Breakups in general suck! But if its a different girl, but the same situation over and over again, then there has to be something "Your" doing to contribute the ultimate ending of your relationship.
If you can get her, thats one thing, but can you really keep her, because that in itself is the ultimate skill.
Jay and I don't really believe in rules. But more guidelines, ways of thinking and principles. In this video we address some hot issues like;
*Why girls like straight to your face and get away with it.
*The truth about "being yourself" and what really works.
*What are some attractive factors that keep a girl interested and begging for MORE MORE MORE!
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Next post is coming out on Friday! - Cheating, To Tell or Not To Tell ....
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Queen KC and Jinxypie, ready and waiting!
Have a lot of questions about cuckolding?
Want to know what a Cuckoldress thinks?
Get ready… you’re in for a treat!
On Saturday, 6 March 2010, two awesome ladies are going to answer your questions!
Jinxypie and special guest, Queen KC, are taking time to handle all the questions you can throw their way!
KC is the webmistress for getintocuckolding.com, and has been cuckolding her man for quite a while. She shares a similar mission, educating folks about the lifestyle and the benefits you’ll share as a couple.
What we need from you is – Your questions!
What have you always wanted to ask a Cuckoldress? What do you long to know?
Ask us via email: jinxypie@jinxypie.com. Put “Questions for KC and Jinxy” as the subject line and we’ll answer them! Just be sure to send them by Friday, 5 March 2010!
Please keep in mind we may not be able to answer all questions received, but will do our best! This video will be posted to YouTube and to my blog and website (the free side of it) after completion.
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Natural Contours LIBERTÉ: Liberating
Sleek. Sophisticated. For women with sophisticated tastes. I was imaging how a TV or radio commercial would sound for Natural Contours’ line of womens’ personal products as I gently slid a demo model of their LIBERTÉ out of it’s box and into mine. The Mercedes Benz of pleasure devices! Hmmm… the lines would be delivered in a suave European accent, no doubt!
The first thing you notice about these vibrators is they’re not really shaped like a penis. They don’t looks like rabbits. The best description I can give is they resemble the sculptures found in furniture stores that deal in avant-garde designs. I’m certain one could be displayed on a hall table next to a porcelain vase and flower arrangement and your visiting mother be none the wiser, or perhaps even in a museum display of modern art, its purpose only revealed when someone turns it on.
Oh, yes, turning the LIBERTÉ on reveals a powerful three-speed vibration that is also surprisingly quiet so your roommate doesn’t inquire about the power tools being used in your bedroom! It also offers an additional setting that can only be described as throbbing. It was designed in Europe along with famous adult actress Candida Royalle with the curves of our bodies in mind. It’s ergonomically enhanced 8 inches massages the right areas, finding the G-spot with ease. But don’t let the design fool you. This is not a gentle toy. It packs a wallop I can only describe as brute bliss. You might even call it liberating.
Natural Contours had a famous visitor to their booth at the recent annual Natural Products Expo in Anaheim – Paula Abdul! And she left with one of their vibrators. But don’t ask which one she chose ‘cause we’re not telling!
Paula Abdul singing “Vibeology.” Hmmm…
http://scandalouswomen.com/vids/Vibeology.FLV
Endorsed by everyone from Glamour and Mademoiselle Magazines to Board-Certified Sex Therapists, the Natural Contours LIBERTÉ is a classy step up from the average vibrator.
Jolie – A Discreet Traveling Companion
BONUS REVIEW! The ladies at Natural Contours also sent us their waterproof wonder, the Jolie. It’s just the right size to fit into your purse, making it the perfect and discreet travel companion. But don’t let the size fool you. It gets the job done!
Natural contours massagers are discreetly packaged in an attractive box with instructions and batteries included, except where noted. They are made of high quality ABS plastic with a Japanese low noise Electro motor and a three speed slide switch. Produced under ISO standards.
To order, click here.
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