Clearly, we’re not mind readers!
I talk a LOT about communication, about people being OPEN and HONEST with each other. We can do that when it comes to things we like or dislike in general, and sometimes on a sexual level. But as husbands and wives, do we really open the gates about what we need from our spouse from a cuckolding relationship?
Ladies, when you first started the steps in your cuckolding relationship, did you completely understand everything your husband wanted out of it? Of course not! Honestly, he probably wasn’t even 100% sure what he wanted. I have spoken to a few women that took a step forward, only to end up taking four steps backwards, due to miscommunication and hurt feelings. Men, we’re putting ourselves out on the line when you ask us to partake in this lifestyle… if we do something wrong or don’t completely understand what you need and you “throw a fit” over it or get upset, we’re not going to want to do this anymore. Sad, but true… we think that we’re only going to screw it up and that we’ll have to deal with you being upset after we are with another man every time. Truth is (and I’m talking to both genders now), if we just push through it and keep talking, we will start to understand fully what the other person needs from us.
Here’s an example from my own life. Some of you may be surprised to learn, I wasn’t always good at this. (Shocker!!!) We all have a growing/learning process to go through, and it’s not easy. When I first began this journey, I wanted to go out alone to hotel rooms or to some guy’s place to have sex. My husband and I had just had a baby about 4 months prior, so he was to stay home and take care of the children while I went out for a few hours. Since my husband couldn’t be there, he’d always ask if I would try to take pictures, just so he could see. Not an outlandish request, right? Well, I would always get where I was going and be uncomfortable bringing up pictures, because I thought the guy would be freaked out by it. I mean, I wasn’t really keen on taking pictures (funny how things change, huh?) – why would some random guy be OK with it? So I never even brought it up. I would get home and the first question my husband would ask would be “So did you get any pictures?” Time and time again, I would say no. The look of disappointment and hurt on his face both killed and confused me. I was out doing what he wanted, right? Cuckolding is about having sex with other men to get sexually satisfied, what does it matter if there are no pictures to prove it?
I couldn’t have been more wrong. To him, that small inconsiderate move was like saying “This is for me, I could care less about what you need out of this.” All he needed was to see what was going on, specifically see my face and how happy I was. I wasn’t willing to give him that because at the time it made me a little uncomfortable.
I was so wrong.
Cuckolds tend to get target-fixated, they start to obsess about one particular thing that could happen, they forget about anything else. It could be something as seemingly simple as seeing his love’s face while she’s taking in another man’s larger sized cock, or something as small as hearing her call her lover a specific pet-name while they’re having sex… or even watching her in a certain sexual position. As women, we don’t know what’s inside their head! But it is our job to try to pry it out of them, if they’re not open to tell us outright.
Think about it this way, ladies. Let’s say you were planning a date with this massively hung, good-looking guy. He wanted to take you out on the town, then back to his place for a lot more fun. Well, date night comes around and dude calls to say he’s running late. No big deal, we can wait for a bit… this is going to be a spectacular night! An hour rolls by, and he’s still not ready to go… then another hour. Then you get a phone call saying he’s too tired from working to go out, and he just wants to chill back at his place. Well, there’s a little disappointment but we can still have fun in the bedroom! He swings by to pick you up, and all he can talk about on the drive to his place is work, he hasn’t even said one word about how HOT you look in your new dress and heels. Once at his place, he plops down on the couch and turns the TV on. Dumbfounded, you go sit next to him… some time passes and you try to make a play. He goes for it, and before long you’re in the bedroom – just where you wanted to be all along, right?! Finally! …except it doesn’t last very long. He gets you all worked up and is done in the span of about seven minutes. You’re lying in the bed beside him, ready to rip his head off, because all he could care about is himself! You have needs too!
All that build up, and then you’re let down. That’s how it is in the mind of a cuck. They build themselves up with the fantasy and excitement of what might happen, what they WANT to happen, and when it doesn’t happen, they freak out.
It took a while for me to understand this concept. Now that I get it, it’s easier for me to ask him what he’s been thinking about, what would be the most exciting thing for him to see/hear while I’m with one of my men… taking the time to talk about what he wants will help you to understand what he is target fixated on, what he’s obsessing about.
Trust me ladies, once “that thing” happens, he’ll be over it and moving on to the next obsession. That’s not a bad thing either, it helps you both to grow sexually and push your limits, making things more exciting. =)
Talk to your cuck. Cucks, talk to your woman. We aren’t mind readers!
Read the totally scandalous original article here
Guest Blogger: Angela
The more you put yourself out there, the more people come to you! I have been emailing back and forth with today’s guest blogger, Angela, because she’s writing a book on fetishes, kinks, and fantasies. She would like some help from my blog readers! Please respond to this blog entry with your comments and answers to her questions. I want this to be a great help to her, so get to work! 
—————————–
Hi everyone,
My name is Angela and I’m an Australian doing some research for an upcoming publication on fetishes and kink. Jinxy has been kind enough to help with me some information on cuckolding and also given me the opportunity to pose some questions here on her blog to those of you interested in cuckolding.
First off I’m interested to know what attracts a man to being a cuck. Some of you will be already living this lifestyle (i.e. doing it with their wife or partner) and for some of you the interest remains a fantasy that you enjoy by reading blogs such as this or visiting cuckolding websites. Either way:
(1) what is it about cuckolding that makes you hot?
(2) what part (if any) does humiliation play in this for you?
From my reading about it, cuckolding is often put together with femdom, as it can be part of the Dom/sub dynamic for some couples.
(3) Do any of you who enjoy cuckolding think of themselves as a submissive, or is this idea off track?
I’m keeping my questions short and sweet, as I’d like to just keep this informal and see where the chat takes us!
It would really help me if when you replied you gave some small amount of detail about yourself (nothing incriminating of course 
), things such are you married, are you actively a cuck, just fantasing about being a cuck, has there been more than one partner who has cuckolded with you, what sort of profession do you work in, what age bracket are you in.
Thanks ahead of time to all of you that take the time to share!
Cheers,
Angela
Read the totally scandalous original article here
Queen KC and Jinxypie, ready and waiting!
Have a lot of questions about cuckolding?
Want to know what a Cuckoldress thinks?
Get ready… you’re in for a treat!
On Saturday, 6 March 2010, two awesome ladies are going to answer your questions!
Jinxypie and special guest, Queen KC, are taking time to handle all the questions you can throw their way!
KC is the webmistress for getintocuckolding.com, and has been cuckolding her man for quite a while. She shares a similar mission, educating folks about the lifestyle and the benefits you’ll share as a couple.
What we need from you is – Your questions!
What have you always wanted to ask a Cuckoldress? What do you long to know?
Ask us via email: jinxypie@jinxypie.com. Put “Questions for KC and Jinxy” as the subject line and we’ll answer them! Just be sure to send them by Friday, 5 March 2010!
Please keep in mind we may not be able to answer all questions received, but will do our best! This video will be posted to YouTube and to my blog and website (the free side of it) after completion.
Read the totally scandalous original article here
Hammer… Nails… Aches… Pains…
Call this a fluff update if you want… but I wanted to give you guys an update as to what’s going on in the world of Jinxypie. =)
If you follow me on Twitter, you may have seen my rambling about remodeling our bedroom. This is the very same bedroom you’ll see in my video clips or even the pictures on my site. Something we’ve always had to struggle with is the lighting in the bedroom. We added new lights, but this didn’t fix the issue. In a couple of my videos I’m in a hotel room, and if you pay attention those videos seem to be lit better. The secret isn’t always the lights in the room, it’s in the color of the walls, bedding, and other surrounding items as well.
We all have those moments where you’re thinking about the future, and you muse about things you’d like to change about your home. We had planned on redoing our kitchen, but the more we talked about it, the more sense it made to make our bedroom the next big project. We could finally level out the floor (our bedroom is in an old garage area, so the floor was still sloped – which was one of my biggest gripes about the room). We could have real walls instead of two brick walls and two that were done with flimsy paneling. We could cover over the ugly fireplace, AND we could probably make a closet in the room!
After a few months of planning, it’s all finally coming together. It’s nowhere near done yet, but here are some before and “now” pics.
As you can see, we still have a ways to go. The carpet is being ordered, I can’t paint until the drywall is finished, we can’t put the ceiling tiles in until I’m done painting, etc., etc. It’s all a big, frustrating, wonderful process that’s going to give me just what I want. =D
Read the totally scandalous original article here
The “Exclusive” club.
Interracial cuckolding. It’s a topic that I see discussed all too often, like cuckolding isn’t real unless the white chick is fucking a black dude, with her sissy white cuck present. I get emails all the time from guys (mostly cucks) asking if the black men were better than the white men I fuck, or if the ‘myth’ is fact… if I get off on the “taboo” nature of having sex with black men, and, most often, if I’m going exclusive. I’m here to give probably the most unpopular answer to those questions.
I have been with four black men. Yes, three out of the four were above average, or well above average in cock size. Did I enjoy myself? YOU BETCHA! Over and over and over again… but the fact is, I’ve been with a lot of above average to well above average white guys, too. No, I wouldn’t say it’s the type of men that are drawn to me, as I have sex with those that are just average also. My opinion on the subject is, while in my experience, the black men have been larger than, or very similar in size to the white men I’ve fucked. I have had great sex with all kinds of men, so I can’t say with all honesty that my greatest sex is always with black men.
Seeing a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as “taboo” in some places, yet lots of people find it extremely erotic. With cuckolding, it may be hotter for the cuck to see or know that his woman is getting fucked by a black man, but that plays into the interracial fetish as well as the cuckolding fetish. For me personally, I don’t see it as “taboo” or wrong in any sense. Granted, I’m sure a few of my family members would have a problem with it, but my sex life is none of their business.
While I enjoy sex with black men, I will never go exclusive. I get that question a LOT, and I’m sure I disappoint the men that ask. I’m not saying I never want to have sex with a black man again, having bbc is great! I’m just saying I enjoy ALL KINDS of men, so why would I limit myself? The more rules that I make, the less fun there is to have. Know what I mean?
Read the totally scandalous original article here
real or fake?
Back in May of 2009, I decided to start my own website that showcased my cuckolding lifestyle. At that time, there was no members section, everything was open for the world to see. It all really started as a way for me to quickly answer messages and emails that I was receiving from Craigslist or dating sites. Just say a few sentences and send them to my website. That evolved into what it is now, something pretty original that doesn’t have the “typical” porn site look.
My husband was a cuck before I ever knew him, and well before I ever knew what cuckolding and being a cuck meant. I have heard from him on many different occasions stories of how he had searched and searched for a long time for cuckolding porn, and you can tell that pretty much all of it is fake. You know the actors aren’t really feeling these emotions, they’re simply working the niche for the paycheck. He listed a few actresses that were notable, but they change over the years.
Which is better for you all out there in blog-readerville? Would you rather see some beautiful actress cuckolding someone that probably isn’t her husband with some hot black stud, or would you rather see someone that looks more like the girl-next-door, openly cuckolding her husband with some of her favorite men?
I’m not saying there is one right answer. We all have different tastes, so we all like different things. I’ve heard from quite a few people that they appreciate the fact that I’m a real person, living this lifestyle. Yet I’ve heard others say they would prefer to watch professionals “perform” these types of scenes.
I know that I’d rather know someone was in it for real, and not playing a part. What’s your opinion?
Read the totally scandalous original article here
Sexaholics are addicted to sexahol…
(Kind of an inside joke, there…)
My name is Jinxypie, and it’s been 12 days since I have had sex. Not a record for me, but this downtime really leaves a girl itching for it! Keep in mind, I’m not counting sex with my husband (or I would have been at 11 days)… he can’t give me what I need, so it’s basically me talking to him while he takes care of himself. What I mean is used by a real man, fucked hard and long, making me cum over and over.
During my off-time, I tend to focus on the “real world” things going on to push thoughts of sex out of my mind… like our mainstream business, or visiting with family or friends. Those things (especially work) can also tend to build up and make me forget what a sexual being I am. I can get through a week just fine, but you start pushing me towards the 10 day mark and I’m starting to get antsy even though I don’t realize it. Even my husband can tell a difference in my demeanor once I’ve had a good lay!
When I finally get the chance to see someone after a long drought, I always hope for a mind-blowing sex session with lots of sweat and cum. I guess the only way to ensure that is to get some of my regular guys over on those days, so I’m completely satisfied and well-fucked. However, we always have things come up, like guys cancelling or bad weather or sickness, and that tends to throw a wrench in my plans. I was supposed to see someone last night AND tonight, and none are able to make it. My Friday guy had to cancel too, so I’m going another week without good, hot sex. Thank goodness for vibrators… right?
Read the totally scandalous original article here
Guest Blogger, Rayna Spade, presents: I want it all: Professional, wife, cuckoldress
I have pondered for a while about the possibility of bringing in a guest blogger from time to time. This past week I was lucky enough to meet Rayna, and was impressed with her writing skills and with her confidence as a cuckoldress. If you like this post, check out her blog at: www.raynaspade.blogspot.com. Be sure to leave some comments here, too!
~Jinxy
When Jinxy asked me to write this blog under this subject, I thought, “Pppsstthhbb! Easy peasy!” ‘I want it all: Professional, Wife, Cuckoldress’ this should be the easiest thing to write about since it’s my life, right? Wrong! Brainstorming this topic turned out to be quite the look in the mirror for me. How *do* I do this? How do I keep it together? How have I found the balance for all three roles to co-exist equally and effectively? It wasn’t easy~ at first; now it’s just second nature.
This may very well be the first time any of you have read anything written by me so let me give you a quick intro: I am 27 years old and I’m married to the love of my life. We have one child who is often too intelligent for his/her own good and we are both professionals in a very demanding line of work. So, you put all those elements together and I have a very active lifestyle between work, family, and my being a long-time Cuckoldress. Sometimes it takes a well thought out plan to keep all three of my roles from crashing into each other. Oddly enough though, being the Cuckoldress seems to be the easiest role I have!
This lifestyle is without a doubt is a tight rope walk at times, but with plenty of practice over the years, I have developed a routine, per say, that meshes each aspect of my life together without conflict. I have had a few new and blossoming Cuckold couples ask me “what is the key to having a successful marriage/ cuckold lifestyle and how do you hold it all together?” That is an excellent question and the answer comes down to three elements. Mutual understanding, open lines of communication and last, but certainly not least you must trust in each other. You’re both getting your rocks off together (or separately in this case), but if you’re missing one of these elements another area of your life will suffer, i.e. marriage, job or family. Balance is the key to a properly functioning cuckold relationship, but isn’t that the recipe for success in anything we do in life?
Balance (v): to arrange, adjust, or proportion the parts of symmetrically.
The definition of balance seems simple enough, but you have no idea how many people lose site of this when they have a dick in their hand (whether it is their own or someone else’s). I’m not saying that when things get hot and sweaty that you shouldn’t totally lose yourself. Hell, I would never get anything done in my life if I wasn’t able to pacify myself with an enormous cock occasionally and put the day to day responsibilities on hold for an hour or two (or three)! It’s after my roof-raising-multiple-orgasms and having my cuck clean up the mess that I snap back into job-, wife-, or mom-mode. This is the type of balance I am talking about.
Another important factor in a well balanced cuckold marriage is versatility. The transition, or transformation rather, between each role should be seamless. Each of my roles comes so naturally. I’m able to freely wander back and forth between them with ease. I can kiss a boo-boo from a bike –vs- driveway battle, walk inside to iron my husband’s shirt and then fix my lipstick and head out the door for my date with one of my Bulls. Seamless- normal- natural. If it is a jerky transition then it will be so much more difficult to maintain the necessary balance.
You must also consciously establish your values and remind yourself what’s really most important in your life? For me, my family: husband and child, are the most significant for me. My responsibilities to them come first before getting laid. I must ensure that my family’s needs are met before I can venture out for sex. My job as a wife and a mother is the glue that holds everything together in our family. Priority number two on my list is my career. Last on the priority chart is my insatiable cravings for cock. Overall, if my family’s needs are not in good sorts, then my cock craving will not be met. 1.) Family. 2.) Job. 3.) Cock. As simple as 1-2-3 (yes, I did just go there…).
Some characteristics more specific for a particular role may be helpful in one of the other two. For instance, I am a very domineering Cuckoldress. The established dominance in my marriage can easily be interpreted as being enterprising in my career. I am less likely to be passed over for a promotion or getting fucked over by a co-worker because of this characteristic. Now, my emphatic attitude just comes out naturally. To all those women out there that are curious about the cuckold lifestyle, let me share a very reassuring bit of advice: This lifestyle is a pure, unadulterated confidence boost! Your attitude toward yourself, your relationship and everyday life will change, but that’s a blog for another time… so let’s back on track.
Compassion (from the mother role) helps in being a Cuckoldress as well. The first time that my cuck was offered a cream pie, I think I literally saw his face turn green. I had compassion for him and I talked him through it. Now he cannot wait for his cream pies. Ardent compassion is the key to easing him into his duties in his role.
It should go without saying (I am saying it anyways) that time management is massively important as a functioning Cuckoldress. It doesn’t matter is you are Wife, Mother, Professional, and/or Cuckoldress; you are only allocated 24 hours in any day just like the rest of us. How you manage those 24 hours is vital in the efficient survival in this lifestyle. My typical day runs like this: Gym, work, lunch (sometimes an afternoon quickie if I have time), more work, more gym, my child’s after-school activity, dinner, chores, date with the “Bull of the moment”, then sleep. I barely have enough time in my day by just being a wife and mother. Factor in work and cuckoldry and it gets a little hectic. I keep everything penciled into my daily planner (little black book *wink, wink*) which is an essential item with my life. I know, I know, that seems so simple, but it is also entertaining when I find my cuck beating off while reading my scheduled events.
Every woman, at significantly different points in her life, wishes to be a princess, a wife, a mother, and/or a professional career woman. As usual, reality can sting like a bitch and the “princess” option drops off her “what I want to be when I grow up” list first. Sometimes women even give up the career in order to focus more on her family or vice versa. I am 27 years old and I still want to be a princess, but since I was not born into royalty I guess Cuckoldress is the closest I will ever come… And I am delightfully happy about that.
My name is Rayna Spade. I am 27 years old. I am a wife, a mother, a professional and a Cuckoldress… And I want it all. www.raynaspade.blogspot.com.
Read the totally scandalous original article here
You agreed to take the leap… now what?
You had the discussions with your man, both expressed your fears and concerns, got over the insecurities and worries, and have decided to take that next-step with cuckolding. But where do you start? How hard is it to find someone interested in sleeping with a married woman, whose husband knows about her infidelity? Well ladies, it can be as easy or as hard as you make it.
There are so many different routes, it honestly depends on your personality and comfort level. If you’re gung-ho about doing this and want to start your search immediately, why not go bar-hopping? Either alone, or with a few close girl-friends that wouldn’t give you a sideways glance once you’re dancing hot and heavy with a sexy guy. Lots of single guys (as well as the married and looking guys) frequent bars with other guy friends, so there are usually some good choices at any bar. There are a lot of women that will attest to the fact that wearing their wedding ring has actually got them hit on by men. It seems that guys see a hot woman out on the town to be a sign she’s unhappy at home, and looking for some excitement. While that may not always be the case, it’s certainly a fun fantasy for the guy, being the hot stud that gives a sly wink and ends up bedding the beautiful lady. No strings, just sex, as afterwards she goes home to her (unknowing?) husband.
If you are able to let your friends or family in on your cuckolding lifestyle (and they’re accepting of it), then maybe they know a friend looking for a fling. Don’t be afraid to use the contacts in your life to find guys! Yes, this one has risks if you’re not able to share everything with your friends/family, but it’s probably one of the safer routes to go. Your best friend won’t set you up with a psychopath, right? She’ll have your best interests at heart! I’ve had a guy that I see try to get one of his friends over to see me. The other guy thought it was a really weird situation and it never worked out, but I didn’t let that get me down. Not everyone is open to open relationships…
The route I chose at first was to sign up for those adult dating websites online. I was 100% clear about what I wanted and who I was when I wrote my profile. I even went so far as to explain I was still nursing my infant son at first (so if breastmilk freaks you out, come back at a later time), and that grammatical errors really irritate me. Something you all know if you’ve ever signed up for an online dating site is, most people don’t completely read your profiles. They may glance at the first line or two, but all they really want to see is pictures of you, and for them to send pictures of themselves (usually body / penis shots, rarely would a guy send a face picture at first). I’ve read a lot of profiles of people that are sick of the games, tired of fakes, and want you to send some kind of codeword in the subject of your message to prove you read their entire profile. What amuses me is those people don’t always read the entire profile themselves! Another option to the dating sites is – Craigslist. Yes, I said it, and I’ve used it. Successfully! Just find the appropriate section, post an ad, being as specific as possible, and watch the inbox get flooded. With either of those options (dating sites, Craigslist) you need to be picky. Don’t go with the first person to send you a message simply because they were the first to show interest, they may not be what you want! Don’t worry about trying to answer every email with a thoughtful response, either. If they aren’t what you’re looking for, just respond with a simple “No thanks” or “We’re looking for different things” or something along those lines. Hit “delete” and move on.
The avenue I use the most is honestly the “Meet Jinxypie” section of the website. I keep a few months up at a time, letting people know when I’m free and when I’m busy, and people can submit a form to let me know they’re interested. I will respond to them and if there is interest (and they’re willing to follow my rules) I will set up a date. I can honestly admit that I’m not as picky as I used to be, and maybe that’s because I’ve changed over the past two years so much that I can see things as just sex, I don’t worry with that “connection” that most people need. But don’t let my choices influence yours!
DO NOT put yourself in any situation that makes you uncomfortable. If you and your husband/boyfriend decide that he gets a “say-so” on which guys you see, then don’t do anything without his knowledge. I know a lot of couples that have the arrangement where the woman will go to meet the guy for the first time with her husband/boyfriend before a date for sex is ever set up. Not for the “connection” aspect, but just to satisfy their personal curiosities of how this person acts in public, ask him any questions – just to make sure he’s really what she’s looking for. Girls, if your guy wants to come along on one date to meet the guy, then he needs to be there. Your husband/boyfriend has your safety in mind. Don’t push him out for being protective of his love!
These suggestions don’t cover every way of meeting guys to have sex with, but it’s a start. Use caution, don’t rush into things, and have fun with it! Cuckolding is a wonderful experience; you’re gonna have the time of your life!
Read the totally scandalous original article here
What you’ve all been waiting for… =)
Wow, you all really took me up on the offer, huh?! Let me start by saying I love all the questions! Thank you for taking time to ask them. It is taking me much longer than anticipated to respond to them all, but I did promise! Now, let’s get on with the show…
Andrew asked: Jinxy, What are your three greatest accomplishments over the past year, regarding your sexual lifestyle?
Well, that’s gonna take some thinking… my first greatest accomplishment regarding my sexual lifestyle would probably be getting over my fear of multiple partners at once. I wasn’t sure I could be into it but it wasn’t bad at all. Second would probably be having my first (of many) black bull. Lastly would be my websites (including the avenues of social media), which help with my confidence and self-esteem when it comes to issues related to cuckolding. Though I believe I’m far from “expert” status, I like to believe that since I’m living the lifestyle, people will genuinely come to me for advice on the subject. Not to mention, I have SEO skillz, buddy! I rock SEO.
Andrew also asked: Jinxy, How long do you anticipate you will continue in your cuckolding activities?
Also… What are your vitals, such as height, measurements, age, weight, shoe size (love your sexy feet and toes). Now I know some women are uptight about revealing age or weight, but you seem like you are a confident, sexy woman that is sure of who she is. I will come up with more as the week progresses and I hope others do too and you enjoy this little exercise!
I believe I will continue my cuckolding activities for pretty much the rest of my life, barring any physical condition. I’m approximately 5ft, 3 inches tall. Measurements: 34B, 31 waist, 37 hips; 30 years young, 125ish pounds, shoe size 6.5… I am pretty confident, but like all women I have insecurities about how I look. LOL.
Randall asked: How often did your husband have intercourse with you in December? How many times would you expect him to have intercourse with you in January? I don’t include other sexual contact or masturbation in this, only times he actually had full sex sex with you.
Hmm, during December I’d say it was around 2-3 times. During January, probably 1 time… hasn’t happened yet, though.
Joe wrote: Jinxy, Do you think u will do any mainstream porn along with your website in the future? I know of others that have done that, such as Janet Mason and Katie Kox. Will you be doing any creampie videos? Do you have any political or religious beliefs? What is the biggest cock you have ever taken?
Hey Joe, I think that in the future the mainstream people will come to me, IF I get popular enough. I mean, Katie has been in the industry about 6-8 months longer than me, and look at where she is now! Granted, I know she’s in the right place for this kind of work, but give me time… I’ll be a big name before you know it. I would love to do mainstream stuff as long as I could stay true to who I am. I know that’s really hard to do with mainstream, but I’m still crossing my fingers on it. Creampie – yeah, I will be able to do that eventually… but that really involves a couple of things. 1 being having my husband in the room, and the 2nd is being with a guy long enough to be comfortable going bareback with him. Political or religious beliefs… honestly, does it matter? I go with the camp of, research what a person stands for and stand by the person that has similar values… and with religion, I’m somewhat agnostic. And I’ll leave it at that. Biggest cock? …he was a good 11inches, maybe more!
Joe also asked: What does a daily routine consist of for you? What are your hobbies? Do you like sports? How would you describe yourself in high school, where you a cheerleader? Have you had sex in public?
Well, a typical day for me has been: wake up at 6:15am, wake one kid up for school, get her out the door at 6:30am, wake the other kids up for school/daycare. Get them out the door at 7am, take the baby to daycare by 7:15am, come home, wake up my hubby, go back to sleep for an hour or two (lol), wake up around 9 or 10am, go to my office, check emails, visit forums, do a content update to the website if needed, do a blog or YouTube video if that’s what day of the week it is, eat at some point, stop working when the kids get off the bus, go pick up the baby from daycare, be mommy for a few hours, put the kids to bed, get ready for the guy of the night OR work some more… go to bed around midnight.
The new year brings new things for me, including a daily trip to the gym and then tanning 2-3 times a week. Haven’t quite figured out how to put it in my schedule yet, but it’s going to be soon!
Hobbies/interests, I love music, shopping, and sports (college football, college basketball, Cubs baseball). In high school I was in the band… colorguard, but still a member of the marching band. Didn’t consider myself in any category except “not popular” “not cheerleader” “not brainiac” and “not freak”. Lots of us didn’t fit into any one category. I was a cheerleader in like 8th grade, but that doesn’t really count, LOL. In high school I was on the dance team. That’s what mattered! There’s not been any sex “in public”. When that happens I’ll let you all know.
Andrew came back to ask: Jinxy! How many “regular” bulls are you meeting with now? Age of your oldest bull and age of youngest? What is your favorite leisure activity (excluding sex) ha!? Where is your favorite vacation spot or most fun place you have visited? Place you would love to visit that you have never been before (maybe we can make arrangements!!)? Do you participate in sex toy play regularly? If so, what is your most favorite sex toy? Have you found a female companion in the lifestyle to correspond and share thoughts/feelings with yet? Which bull makes you cum the most times in a session and how long do those sessions typically last(for instance, 12 orgasms in 2.5 hours). Have fun with these Jinxy!!!
Ok… “regular bulls” to me means at least once a month. LOL. The only real regular I have is one, he comes to see me every week. Oldest bull was like 46 I think, youngest was 19 (and he actually thanked me afterwards, which was weird). Favorite leisure activity excluding sex… lol… shopping, I guess. Favorite vacation spot, being a Carolina girl we tend to say Myrtle Beach. Place I would love to visit that I haven’t been before: Chicago!!! YES, I use sex toys quite often. My favorite toy, well, I don’t know what it’s called. It’s some kind of wand looking thing. A female companion in the lifestyle, yes actually!!! She is the webmistress that runs www.getintocuckolding.com, and she recently asked about featuring me. I’m thrilled! Which bull makes me cum the most times? …depends. One guy went for literally 2.5 hours and I don’t think I’ve ever cum so much! There’s no way to count them all. LOL, but he wins!
Thomas mused: hmmmmm … why is it that only men are asking questions? Is that a question?
Well, 1) men are more curious about a woman’s point of view and 2) they’re the ones that aren’t scared to ask. If a woman comes up with a question, she might be scared to actually ask it because others might be ‘stalking’ her online (go back and read my post about needing a girl-friend in the lifestyle, scandalouswomen left a great comment that sums it up), or because she doesn’t want to be seen as a weirdo. Women have been taught not to feel a certain way, or talk about certain things (sex is dirty, right?) so women aren’t as open with sexuality at first.
Michael asked: How was your sexlife with your husband before you were married to each other? Did you know he was interested in cuckolding then? Were you having sex with other men before marriage?
Sexlife with my husband before marriage… well, we still had sex some. Not a whole lot, but I was pregnant so that was one of the reasons. (Other reasons being I didn’t want to have sex because it wasn’t doing anything for me.)Before we were married we didn’t discuss cuckolding a lot, although he did tell me about things his ex-wife used to do. I had no idea that he was planting the seeds to open me up to cuckolding, I thought he was telling me about all the things she had done to him so I would agree that she was a horrible person (and she really is someone I’d like to punch in the face for multiple reasons). I wasn’t having sex with other men after I started dating my husband (before marriage) but before I started dating him (right after I split with my ex), I was quite promiscuous…
Stephen wrote: Have you ever had a “really bad day at the office”? Something like the guys just didn’t do anything for you, or a date that went horribly wrong? What kind of precautions do you take to weed out the kooks, and keep yourself safe?
Hahaha… there was one date that never really happened I guess. We had been chatting on IM and via text, even talking on the phone… he got lost on the way to my place (twice, if I’m not mistaken) and finally made it there. Once to my place we talked for a minute or two, then started kissing… we got naked and while I was giving him oral sex, he decided that he couldn’t go through with it. Because I have pictures of my family in the room, it threw him off. The guy knew he was about to fuck a married woman, but seeing pictures of my family ruined it for him. (WTF?) I was dumbfounded. To ‘weed out the kooks’ I have a list of rules men have to follow. Basically just email back and forth, I have men that are shocked that I send them an email back and I never hear from them again. Others are all BIG talkers but unwilling to commit to a date. I’ve learned not to waste too much time with the big talkers… If a guy doesn’t follow my rules, he’s out. I am a pretty easygoing person and will give a person a second chance, but you blow me off and you might as well have ran over my dog… I won’t want to speak to you again.
Andrew came back for more… Yeah let’s get some gals with some questions! But, I’m gonna guess that 90% of the readership is males and 70% is sissy cucks, 10% are cucks with average to good sexual skills and “equipment” that just enjoy seeing the wifey get sexed by a more endowed man and watching her reaction to it. 10% of the males are current or petential bull studs that are finding out info to better please Jinxy and other hotties like her. The last 10% of the males probably have no clue what they are doing here but find all this too intriguing to just close the page and forget about seeing this lovely woman talk about fucking men openly in front of her husband! How close am I in those approximations Jinxy? Does that count as a question?
I agree, Andrew, I’m fairly certain (just by the comments) that most of my readers are male. Whether these men are sharing the blogs with their wives or girlfriends is mostly unknown, but I do have men that communicate the content of these blogs with their women. As far as the men who stumble upon my blog, I find that one unlikely… there are lots of random search terms that could land you here, but c’mon… this is a blog about cuckolding and related fetishes. They know how they got here.
Steve wrote: Do you dominate your husband?
If you do how do you punish him?
Have you ever thought that squeezing his balls is a good punishment? I highly recomend it.
Sure, but probably not to the degree most people think I should.
Punishment is basically in the form of taunting and not giving in when he wants to see/touch/be inside my pussy.
Not really given much thought to ball squeezing, as I haven’t done a ton of research on the matter. LOL, I’m the type that likes to be well-informed!
Louis popped in to write: I watched your video on helping husbands introduce their wives to cuckolding. My wife and I have started taking some “baby steps” that involve her going out dancing with friends. She’ll go out for the night, dance with guys, come home and tell me about it. She wants me to take her later this month so I can watch her dancing with other men. Are there other “baby steps” you can suggest for us and/or in general?
Well, another couple that has a slight interest in the hotwife lifestyle actually just asked me my thoughts on hiring a male stripper for her and her friends, while he’s present. Not for any type of humiliation, just so he can watch his woman enjoying the pleasures of a male stripper… I thought that was an awesome idea! There’s also the masseuse route, having a good-looking man give her a great sensual massage… I think it’s great that you’re going to go out with her to watch her dance with these other men. You should also have her pick a handsome stud and have you ask him to dance with her.
Andrew is really inquisitive! Jinxy, here are some more, how many of your bulls are single and how many are married? Of the married bulls, besides a hot sex session with a lovely gal, what motivates them to meet with you? Are the married bulls active or former swingers? How many meetings with bulls do you average per week? How many different men, excluding your often neglected husband, do you have sex with each week? Has your favorite bull coaxed you into anal play yet? I suppose that is all for this batch! Can’t wait to read all tokie responses to everyone’s questions! You might want to consider answering these on video. Would love to geare you read the questions and then respond! I had another thought, that maybe you could rank your top 4 favorite questions asked by recognizing whom asked the question and awarding them in order of platinum, gold, silver and bronze.
Single bulls: most of them. I only know of 3 guys I’m supposed to see in the next two months that are attached. One of my married bulls is an old high school boyfriend and he’s really close by, so I’m sure some of the appeal is me being so close by. Other bulls, I dunno… maybe they like the fantasy of fucking a porn girl. LOL. Of the married bulls, I don’t think any are former swingers. Per week, I schedule anywhere from 3-5 dates, the other days are for catching up on work or family stuff. Each night is a different guy, with the exception of my regular, on two occasions we’ve met twice a week. Lots of bulls try to get me to do anal, and I tell them all it’ll happen sometime, just not yet. It would take me way too long to answer these on video, btw. Today wasn’t a good day for video anyway. Top 4 questions? …nah, not this time.
My good friend Mr. Dave Stephens wrote: Hey Jinxypie, I am so thankful for your website and your video blogs and your willingness to help others getting started like Maddie and I, however, I read your post, that your family doesn’t know about your extra marital activities. Are you afraid that with your face all over the internet, they will find out one day soon and what precautions do you take? You said if they did find out, you wouldn’t stop, I admire that. Please don’t ever leave!
Hi Dave! I’m not too afraid that they’re going to find me (yet). I think that it’s going to take my name being out there more, and more popularity for that fear to creep in. I believe that IF they were to find me somehow, they would have been searching for something either in cuckolding or somehow related, therefore they would be more open to what I have to say. Precautions, well, I’m not openly putting myself in the documentary I recently talked about. I’m not bringing things around my family or going out to places my family might be. I’m very mindful of where and when I’m going out, and what risks there are of being “seen”. And no, I don’t ever plan on leaving.
Lygtemand asked: Do you have any sexual ethics? I mean besides avoiding rape and kids is there something you won’t do for moral reasons? Like for example would you, for moral reasons, avoid having sex with a married man, whose wife does not know what is going on?
Well, …not really, I guess. That sounds so bad, but it’s true. I am 99.99999999% positive my local guy’s wife has no clue we see each other. I don’t let that stop me. Two consenting adults, right?
Ramesh pondered: Hi, Sexy Jinxy, at what age did you start your moon time? The place where it happened and what were your reactions?
Ok, just trying to figure out what you’re asking exactly. Are you asking about when I first started cuckolding, or when I had sex for the first time?
Thank you all for taking the time to ask me these questions! I think this was a fun exercise, although I’m slightly disappointed there weren’t more. :-p C’est la vie. Happy reading!
Read the totally scandalous original article here
