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Bending Your Boyfriends Over!

bobAs adult videos become more and more mainstream, it should come as no surprise women are expanding their sexual repertoire by experimenting with some of the things performers in these movies do. If your bag of carnal tricks doesn’t include “pegging” yet, rest assured this bedroom role reversing power play will soon be appearing in one of your upcoming booty calls!

Putting it bluntly, pegging refers to women engaging in anal sex with her men using a strap-on sex toy. Whew! Now that we’ve gotten that visual out the way, it’s time to discuss the awesome potential for sexually intense role play it offers for both you and him.

The term “pegging” was originally coined by sex columnist Dan Savage (a male version of Carrie Bradshaw.) An alternate term is BOB, an acronym for Bend Over Boyfriend. While it certainly isn’t everyone’s cup of latte, many women who do it express a unique feeling of power and liberation. “It’s the difference between fucking and getting fucked,” offers Andrea Nelson, a twenty-something bank manager in Miami.

Taking His Virginity


“It hurts!”
Anal sex only hurts if you’re doing it incorrectly. The majority of us carry a lot of tension in our assholes–the same way we carry stress in our shoulders. Pain results when an object is forced through tight sphincter muscles, damaging the delicate anal tissues. If anal sex ever hurts, you should stop or take the stimulation back a notch. Remember–the key to anal pleasure is relaxation and lubrication! Pain is a warning signal from our bodies that we should take seriously.

“It gives you hemorrhoids (and/or uncontrollable bowels)!”
Most people find that when they start exploring butt play, their anal health improves. All muscles benefit from the increased circulation that results from exercise and relaxation.

“It’s messy!”
Although you’re likely to encounter some poop in your anal sex career, it’s probably going to be a lot less than you imagined. Most anal play engages only the first few inches of the anus and rectum, which do not store feces. Most people find that a thorough wash in the shower does the trick for removing any surface grime.

“It means he’s gay!”
People of all genders and orientations enjoy anal play. We all have butts! Besides, it’s a myth that all gay men only have anal sex. In fact, the majority of gay men report that oral sex is their favorite sexual activity. As Playgirl magazine once wrote on this topic, the activity is gender-neutral. Attracted to a gender is the identity.  (from Babeland)

“The idea certainly didn’t appeal to me the first time the subject came up,” Andrea explains. “I thought it was gay, like he really wanted to be with a man and not me!” But (butt?) after talking it over with several of her friends, she gained a new perspective. “It was like he wanted to give himself to me, for me to pop his cherry – so to speak. And it does make me feel more empowered. I’m fucking him, he’s not fucking me!”

Ride ‘em Cowgirl!

Fatale Media offers an informational and enjoyable series of DVDs on the subject of pegging created especially for women. Bend Over Boyfriend Part 1 stars sex educators Carol Queen and Robert Morgan and takes viewers on a by step journey into pegging, providing useful tips and advice on building your confidence to approach your men about anal sex, how to find the right strapon (size matters!) and how to fuck him so it doesn’t hurt…much. Role-playing and fantasy are also explored to a degree and it asks the all important question, ‘what do women get out of this?’ The answer – when a dildo is strapped on it’s usually positioned right over your clit and you have rhythmic sensations right where it counts. There’s also a very emotional and empowering aspect to penetrating your partner. Just ask your men how the feel when they fuck you! Although vol. 1 seems more like a how-to guide than something meant to excite women about screwing their men’s asses, this doesn’t mean the DVD isn’t hot and nasty. It has plenty of action with attractive and loving couples.  It just serves as a necessary introduction to the far more explicit and delicious second DVD in the series.

Bend Over Boyfriend Part 2 once again features Dr. Carol Queen but also includes porn star Chloe. Using a news reporter interviewing customers at an adult toy store as a set-up, it has more of a traditional adult movie feel than part 1 has and features several viginettes of four couples and one very hot threesome scene where the guys definitely get theirs “in the end.”  Full of wicked anal sex from a female perspective, Bend Over Boyfriend part 2 is a must-have for any girl who is looking to expand her sensual horizons.

Power Shopping!

There is simply no better way to introduce your men to the world of male penetration than with this perfect package. Start with the Bend Over Boyfriend DVDs, an entertaining, informative, and arousing tutorial series that will not just tell you what you need to know, but will also SHOW you. Next up is the Bend Over Beginner Kit. With its two slim silicone dildos and its velvety soft harness, this Kit is just the key to unlocking your boyfriend’s back door and letting you both in on a whole new world of pleasure.

About the author: Lauren Michelle

Originally from Montreal where she covered local night life for an alternative magazine, Lauren is now a communications major at a Southeastern university writing for the student newspaper.


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Natural Contours LIBERTÉ: Liberating

liber1Sleek. Sophisticated. For women with sophisticated tastes. I was imaging how a TV or radio commercial would sound for Natural Contours’ line of womens’ personal products as I gently slid a demo model of their LIBERTÉ out of it’s box and into mine. The Mercedes Benz of pleasure devices! Hmmm…  the lines would be delivered in a suave European accent, no doubt!

The first thing you notice about these vibrators is they’re not really shaped like a penis.  They don’t looks like rabbits.  The best description I can give is they resemble the sculptures found in furniture stores that deal in avant-garde designs. I’m certain one could be displayed on a hall table next to a porcelain vase and flower arrangement and your visiting mother be none the wiser, or perhaps even in a museum display of modern art, its purpose only revealed when someone turns it on.

Oh, yes, turning the LIBERTÉ on reveals a powerful three-speed vibration that is also surprisingly quiet so your roommate doesn’t inquire about the power tools being used in your bedroom! It also offers an additional setting that can only be described as throbbing. It was designed in Europe along with famous adult actress Candida Royalle with the curves of our bodies in mind. It’s ergonomically enhanced 8 inches massages the right areas, finding the G-spot with ease. But don’t let the design fool you.  This is not a gentle toy. It packs a wallop I can only describe as brute bliss. You might even call it liberating.

Natural Contours had a famous visitor to their booth at the recent annual Natural Products Expo in Anaheim – Paula Abdul! And she left with one of their vibrators. But don’t ask which one she chose ‘cause we’re not telling!


Paula Abdul singing “Vibeology.” Hmmm…

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Endorsed by everyone from Glamour and Mademoiselle Magazines to Board-Certified Sex Therapists, the Natural Contours LIBERTÉ is a classy step up from the average vibrator.

Jolie – A Discreet Traveling Companion

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BONUS REVIEW!  The ladies at Natural Contours also sent us their waterproof wonder, the Jolie. It’s just the right size to fit into your purse, making it the perfect and discreet travel companion. But don’t let the size fool you. It gets the job done!

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Natural contours massagers are discreetly packaged in an attractive box with instructions and batteries included, except where noted. They are made of high quality ABS plastic with a Japanese low noise Electro motor and a three speed slide switch. Produced under ISO standards.

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Stephanie Vega founded Scandalouswomen.com when she graduated from college in 1998. He goal was to create a sex-positive internet experience for alpha women. She is known for her outspokenness and spontaneity.


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The Ultimate Mash up: Music and Pleasure Mix for Ohmibod!

freestyleSex toys are trendy these days. No longer relegated to the back of our lingerie drawers, vibrators are fashionable thanks to a new openness in our society and lots Hollywood exposure. Featured prominently on Sex and the City and endorsed by sexy celebrities like Halle Berry, Lindsey Lohan, Eva Longoria and Terri Hatcher, pleasure-giving gizmos are quickly becoming as much a part of a woman’s boudoir as candles, perfume, and lipstick. So we at scandalouswomen were drooling at the chance to wrap ourselves around the new Freestyle, Ohmibod’s wireless vibrator that pulses in time with music from an IPod. From the exquisite padded carrying case to the universal charging adapters, we knew when we opened the box we had the ultimate iPod accessory.

I was the lucky bitch who took it home with me (actually luck had nothing to do with it – I’m the boss!) and I immediately found a safe and secure place to charge the sleek shaft’s rechargeable battery. I spent the next couple of hours downing a few margaritas and contemplating what songs on my iPod I wanted to test the Ohmibod Freestyle with. Once the unit (hee hee, I said ‘unit’) was ready, I hooked up!

The Benefits of Orgasms
Taking steps to achieve orgasm is well worth it since the psychological and physical benefits of doing so are numerous.

  • Relieves tension in your nervous system
  • Better sleep
  • Boosts your immune system
  • Reduces food cravings
  • Burns calories
  • Natural pain management

I Like That Boom Boom Pow

My first song choice was Black Eyed Peas’ ‘Boom Boom Pow.’  As I was hoping, the wireless toy danced to the music, giving me stronger blasts of vibrations with each pounding beat of the song and slow steady ones during less up-tempo parts. I alternately tried other music styles and tempos – from Hip Hop to Rave to Grunge. And ladies, the power of this toy isn’t for the faint of heart.  It’s easily one of the more tenacious vibes I’ve tried, and getting off was never in question.  I do like that boom boom pow!

Healthy and Durable

One other thing I’d like to mention about the Freestyle (and all of Ohmibod’s products) is it’s made from phthalate-free materials, and molded using a hypoallergenic non-toxic, non porous ABS plastic. In other words, it’s good for you in more ways than one!

Trivia: The Ohmibod Freestyle was included in the gift bag at this year’s Grammy Awards!

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Stephanie Vega founded Scandalouswomen.com when she graduated from college in 1998. He goal was to create a sex-positive internet experience for alpha women. She is known for her outspokenness and spontaneity.


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Haiti: Girls, Can We Talk?

haitianScandalouswomen.com has always been about sexy, flirty female empowerment.  We’ve always presented the message that if men and women can’t be equal in all things sexual, then women have to be superior.  We’ve attempted to some degree of success to reclaim the word ‘bitch’ as a woman who knows what is best for herself and goes after it.  We’ve attempted to reclaim the word “slut” as a badge of sex-positive girl power.  But all too often we take our freedom to control our own destiny – in and out of the bedroom – for granted.  We forget there are places in this world where women are still subjugated and treated like possessions by the men in their lives.  One such place is impoverished and earthquake-ravaged Haiti.  This point was driven home to me in an article by Chris Jepson titled “When Men Are In Control.”

Ladies, remember – we didn’t always have the social and sexual freedoms we have now.  We couldn’t always control our own bodies.  We’re just one or two generations removed from being second class citizens ourselves – owned, even bartered – by men.

Jepson writes, “What transfixes me about so many of the tragedies in the Third World are the scenes of impoverished children. Hundreds of them, thousands. Carried on their mother’s hips. Dragged around by their hands. Standing, crying, abandoned. Protruding bellies, flies circling their forlorn, crusted eyes. Or dead, stacked like so much cordwood. Dumped into mass graves because their culture cannot afford to bury them let alone educate them. Or house them. Or feed them.

And I rage at such images. How can “these” women be having babies in such poverty? What is the logic or sense in that? Why? Why bring child, after child, after child, after child into arguably the poorest place on the entire planet? What woman consciously says, “Oh, I’m not quite impoverished enough. My life is not sufficiently tragic with the four children I already cannot sustain, I’ll have yet another. And if that doesn’t quite do the trick, I’ll squeeze out more. Until my body is spent, my teeth have fallen out and my rickets-plagued children are dying like dogs in the streets. That’s the life I aspire to.” Tragic, yet fulfilling. Motherhood unleashed, damn the results.

If you are a woman reading this essay, ask yourself the following, “How many children did you have while you were living in acute poverty, incapable of adequately taking care of your existing children?” Oh, you say, “I was never in poverty.” Fine. I am asking my intelligent female readers to project, that being the woman you are, exactly how many babies would you bring into the world if you lived in the bone-crushing poverty of Haiti? Or, the Ninth Ward of New Orleans for that matter? How many?

My father had an expression when I would assume “more” than what was called for that went, “Who died and made you Pope?” We’d laugh. Hah! Hah! In this particular discussion, being the Catholic Pope is a handicap; I’ll be emperor for the day.

If I were emperor for the day with unquestioned power, I’d empower all the women of the world to be in control of their own fate, in control of their own bodies. Exclusively. No woman, but herself, would decide what is “good” for her. No government, no religion, no man (as in male) would ever tell a woman what to do. Unless such acquiescence was a freely given prerogative.

If I were emperor for the day, I would make birth control safe, accessible and free. I’d educate all (men and women) to its use starting before the age of fertility.

If I were emperor for the day, I’d give all women of the world the complete and unequivocal right to determine for herself if and when she becomes pregnant and if and when she takes any pregnancy to term.

If I were emperor for the day I’d instill in women the moral imperative to not have children unless the circumstances are advantageous to their actually flourishing. That having children in impoverished circumstances is unwise, unsafe and it is a burden to the family and society and harms the welfare of any existing children because it dilutes parental resources and attention.

So why do women all over the planet have babies they cannot sustain? Because they are ignorant, oppressed and impoverished. They are the Lethal Three that plagues the status of women worldwide.

But basically, it is men. Men in goofy clerical robes spouting scripture that is so out of touch with reality on planet Earth that it would be comical, but that it is so tragic. Goofy, allegedly celibate men who claim to speak for women and families when they are so utterly clueless as to what it means to be pregnant or to adequately sustain a family. Men who declare, “Do as I say,” as the tragedy of profound poverty traps her family and kills her children. Priests who say they speak for God, but who pronounce in religious corporate-speak (absurd dogma), 10th century gibberish for 21st century challenges. Men who claim infallibility but who are an anachronism, a wretched accident of history. Must they forever plague the planet with their anti-female rhetoric. Be they Christian, Hindu or Muslim. Or, Jewish for that matter.

It’s men, everyday men all over the planet who feel/think/consider women are secondary to them. Who tie their masculinity (their worth) to how many children they produce. Who do not insist that their cultures make accessible free, safe and effective birth control. We require men who take pride in what the women of their culture become, in addition to being mothers. Men who are confident enough in themselves to want women of equal confidence and accomplishment in their lives. Men intelligent enough to know that equality is not just a word but an integral part of what it means to be human.

Nothing will change in Haiti until the women of that nation are educated and empowered and are in complete control of their sexuality. For the impoverished to continue to have child after child, well, those babies just become fodder, so much grist for the next tragedy whether it be an earthquake, tsunami, famine or whatever horror mankind inflicts (war, etc.).

When again we will look up, perplexed, from our books or knitting and go, “Tch, tch, such sorrow. What are we going to do now? Such poverty. Look at those poor children? Where do they come from?”

Not where, but why?

For religion or government or “a” man, any man to restrict any woman’s right worldwide to reproductive choice, well, how moral is that? And you might as well consign the results (the impoverished babies) to the dung heap of history. See: modern day burial practices in Haiti.

Any redevelopment money invested in Haiti must include educating and empowering the women of that island and in making birth control safe, accessible and its use, a moral imperative. Anything less, “Well, Tch, tch, such sorrow. What are we going to do …?” “

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Gee! No G-Spot!?!?

sensGinger Q. Lawless, writing for dscriber, cites a London Times piece that supposedly disproves the existence of the G-spot.  DAMN IT!

Lawless writes, “Andrea Burri, the lead researcher with a team at King’s College London, tells a British newspaper that it “is rather irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never really been proven and pressurizes women — and men, too.” What she’s talking about is the mystical center of female pleasure, the G-spot, which she says does not exist, apparently leaving the clitoris to bear the entire orgasmic burden.

She said she embarked on her study to remove feelings of  “inadequacy or underachievement” in the bedroom. Now that she’s got proof — or a lack thereof of G-spots — perhaps we should all feel deflated in light of the orgasmic delights that we’re now told are more or less a figment of our collective erotic imagination.

If taken to be definitive, the research could discredit an entire discourse of thought in the world of female sexuality, including books such as “Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot” by Deborah Sundahl. But if you take the time to read Sundahl, what the King’s College research of more than 1,800 women, all twins, might lack is an deep understanding of sexual arousal and emotional intimacy.

The study, highlighted by the London Times, looked for women reporting having a G-spot experience and then surveyed her twin. No pattern emerged among twins, suggesting the G-spot is a matter of a woman’s subjective opinion.

Still, 56 percent of women overall claimed to have a G-spot, according to the study. They tended to be younger and more sexually active.”

UPDATED: Sex Educators Say Study Dismissing G-Spot Is Flawed, Didn’t Account for Positions, Partners

Many sex educators and researchers are refuting a study published this week by King’s College London that questions the existence of the notorious G-spot — a debate that has swirled for more than a half century.

Sexologist Beverly Whipple, who first coined the term in the 1982 book she co-authored with John D. Perry, “The G spot: and Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality,” said the study had multiple flaws.

Whipple was critical of British researchers who did not consider digital stimulation — the easiest way to achieve G-spot orgasm — only vaginal intercourse and clitoral stimulation.

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Gossip Girl and Britney Take Threesomes Mainstream!

3some2Grey’s Anatomy hunk Eric “McSteamy” Dane and his girlfriend, fresh-faced Noxzema girl Rebecca Gayheart, do it. So does latin music vixen Shakira – supposedly. Paris Hilton allegedly spent her 26th birthday in a hotel room with Stavros Niarchos and Brandon Davis doing it. It makes the top 5 list of female fantasies in annual sex surveys from any number of women’s glossy fashion magazines. Now, thanks to a night time television drama and a pop song, threesomes have gone mainstream!

Little more than a game of spin the bottle, the Dan/Olivia/Vanessa threesome on the Nov. 9th episode of Gossip Girl nevertheless had tongues wagging and critics condemning such sexual openness. But really, it wasn’t even that hot. The really juicy parts were saved for the following episode one week later via Dan’s ‘fantasy’ flashbacks. Despite Gossip Girl’s daring subject matter, the show still chickened out to a degree. You would think if a show aimed at young women was going to present something so taboo, they would have bypassed the male-driven fantasy of a “two girls and one guy” threesome in favor of an infinitely more controversial “two guys and one girl” ménage à trois. Still, scandalous props to Gossip Girl for wading into those waters.

Britney Spears, on the other hand, makes no secret of what she wants in her lastest single and video “3.” Following the lyrics, she’s seemingly trying to talk a guy into a threesome with her and another guy (Three is a charm/ Two is not the same/ I don’t see the harm/ So are you game?). And when he balks at the suggestion, she attempts to sooth his fears but still holds out for two guys or more at the same time (What we do is innocent/ Just for fun and nothin’ meant/ If you don’t like the company/ Let’s just do it you and me.. You and me… Or three.. Or four)

Check out the videos below from Gossip Girl and Britney Spears and then take our poll on threesomes!

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Stephanie Vega founded Scandalouswomen.com when she graduated from college in 1998. He goal was to create a sex-positive internet experience for alpha women. She is known for her outspokenness and spontaneity.


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Orgasms for Women… From a PILL!

pinkpillSo you have a hot guy (or guys), the candles are lit, the champagne is chilled but you’re just not in the mood.  If clinical trials are to be believed, you may not have to let this sexy scene go to waste!  There could be new hope for women who suffer from low libido in the form of an antidepressant being hailed by some as Viagra for women.

The antidepressant flibanserin can be used to treat a condition known as hypoactive sexual desire disorder, or lack of libido, researchers at the University of Ottawa said.

“Over 60 to 75 percent of women actually felt the drug did something for them,” said Dr. Andre Guay, the director for the Center for Sexual Function at Lahey Clinic.

Hypoactive sexual desire disorder affects about 20 percent of women in the U.S., according to HSDD Online.

The multi-nation study tested the drug’s effects in 1,378 women between the ages of 18 and 50 who were in stable, communicative, monogamous, heterosexual relationships.

Women who took the medicine reported 22 percent more “satisfying sexual events” than those given a placebo in two clinical tests, according to abstracts released at the European Society for Sexual Medicine.

Guys are already using the “little blue pill” for recreation.  And girls, if you’ve never had a guy on Viagra, they keep going and going and going.  Now imagine adding a little pink pill to the mix.

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The Oprah Show TODAY: Women and Erotica

Don’t miss it today, November 17!  Oprah and Lisa Ling and adult actress Jenna Jamison discuss why millions of women are using porn and erotica to spice up their love lives.

Did you know according to Nielsen/NetRatings, approximately one in three visitors to adult entertainment Web sites are female and nearly 13 million American women checking out porn online at least once each month?

Theresa Flynt, vice president of marketing for Hustler video, says that women account for 56 percent of business at her company’s video stores. “And the female audience is increasing,” she adds. “Women are buying more porn.” (They’re creating more of it, too: Female director Candida Royalle’s hard-core erotic videos, made expressly for women viewers, sell at the rate of approximately 10,000 copies a month.)

Meanwhile, science is finally buying into the idea that women get as turned on by porn as men.

jennaIn a 2006 study at McGill University, researchers monitored genital temperature changes to measure sexual arousal and found that, when shown porn clips, men and women alike began displaying arousal within 30 seconds; men reached maximum arousal in about 11 minutes, women in about 12 (a statistically negligible difference, according to the study).

But here’s the hitch: Even when our bodies respond to what we’re seeing, not every woman feels empowered to enjoy the show. For years we’ve been told that we won’t — or shouldn’t — be turned on by porn, end of story, sleep tight.  When everyone tells you that what you might be curious about, or even secretly like, is wrong, bad, sleazy, and shameful, you don’t have to cast a line very far to land a set of inhibitions.

Women are changing the market, thouh. Director Maria Beatty’s gorgeously shot movies  look like 1920s noir films with sex, but not explicit sex — just a lot of tease and dreamy outfits and music. And Comstock Films, maker of high-quality, documentary-style, real-couples videos, aggressively markets to women with the simple tagline “Women love real sex.”

Explicit sexual imagery is an aphrodisiac; it sends a direct current buzzing from our brains to our groins. Like a reliable vibrator, it can be a great tool. With porn, women get to experiment with making adult choices and trying on new fantasy ideas, just as we might try a new pair of shoes.

We don’t have to think of rationality and animalistic urges as mutually exclusive. If we desire, we can let them play together like tennis doubles. Porn is one more pleasure to add to life’s sexual buffet, one that can be enjoyed with a partner or alone.

(Adapted from an article by Violet Blue)

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Will You Please Wear A Condom?

condomThere are a few questions in life that are always hard to ask.  Will you wear a condom certainly ranks high on the list.  You would think that with the “sex sells” mentality prevalent in our society and access to birth control and safe sex products at an all time high, this question would get easier.  But sadly for most of us, asking someone to use condoms  is still as hard as the penis that will be wearing it.

I was reminded of the difficulty in asking someone to were a condom when I was at happy hour with a friend, downing a couple of glasses of red wine. My friend and I are both in our early 20s and by no means prudes.  My friend had met a guy at a rock club and was instantly attracted.  He was certainly physically attracted, but left her waiting for him on the sidewalk after his band played a local club.  You see, he’s a “rock star”, in her eyes and his, but a D List rock star at best.

He needed to load his gear after the show, but he never acknowledged her presence on the sidewalk. Several times I told her we should leave…  He left her standing for over 30 minutes then finally came over.  I’m sure he didn’t want anyone to think he was attached.

This would-be rocker texted my friend the next day.  She was too eager.  They went out and had a great time and he asked her if he come spend the night “just to cuddle”.  If that doesn’t say “I just want to get into your pants” I don’t know what does.  The fact that this pushing-40 local rocker was back living at home, I’m sure played a role in his wanting to spend the night.

The second date didn’t go as well: my friend had a few too many beers and professed how much she cared for this rocker, who ended up telling her “You barely know me and I don’t want to be tied down”.  Once again, I saw that this guy was a loser with a capital L but my friend thought it was all her fault for being too interested.

Then came the third date, and cause for the big question…. My friend said that she had such a hard time asking this rocker to wear a condom before they had sex the first time.  She finally mustered the courage to break out an Ecstasy condom  only to have him be a typical loser guy and say, “if you trusted me you wouldn’t ask.”  She had sex with him any way.  He started calling her every couple of weeks and then not at all. Who knows where his dick had been, but fortunately, my friend was lucky and remains STD free.

Safe sex practices are as important today as any time in history. Asking someone to wear a condom before having sex for the first time is not only a matter of self-confidence, but could be a matter of life and death, or at least a prickly crotch that you could avoid.

Today, we have access to a huge variety of products that minimize the risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and also prevent unwanted pregnancies.

So the next time you are ready to you ask, “Will you please wear a condom?” make sure you have chosen a cool guy and have a condom  and some personal lubricant  at your fingertips.  Make it fun, as sex should be.  Your new guy will be more than happy to oblige.

For more information and the hottest sex products, visit Condom Jungle.

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An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away

01A SATISFYING sex life keeps women in tip-top health, research revealed last week.

Females who are fulfilled in the bedroom have more energy and suffer fewer illnesses.

Those who rate their sex lives highly have more vitality and a better psychological outlook than those who have sex less than twice a month.

A team from the Women’s Health programme in Australia analysed the sex lives of almost 300 females aged from 20 to 65.

Those who regularly had orgasms were less likely to fall ill and reported feeling more energetic than women who were left wanting more after romps.

The study highlights that it’s not the amount of sex women have that matters, it is the quality – in contrast to men.

Lead researcher Dr Sonia Davison said: “We found that women who were sexually dissatisfied had lower well-being and vitality.

“This finding highlights the importance of addressing these areas as an essential part of healthcare, because women may be uncomfortable discussing these issues with their doctor.”

Sexual medicine expert Dr Irwin Goldstein said: “This emphasises the role and importance of sexual health in women’s overall health and well-being.”

One sex expert suggested: “If your tired or have a headache, this is just the thing…”

From: the Sun.co.uk

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